"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So f*cking pissed right now. Need some encouragement or...something

Jaxon

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Ok first off I'm hammerd. Second off, just came from a wedding which was fun as hell. Had some great ales on tap, and everyone was having a good time. I was working it on the dance floor, and I literally had 5 different hotties grinding on me as every other dude there was too p*ssy to step out.

I have pictures to prove it and I'd post 'em except I'm in my hotel room and don't have the digital cam hookup to connect to my computer. Anyway I'm working it like i said, keeping in mind everything I've learned from this site. So the evening's winding down, and I manage to get this hot blond (hb8) to come back to my room, but that could sound deceiving because a lot of people were meeting at my room.

So a few peeps meet up in my room, with the chick that I've been gaming, and being the sports they are they find an excuse to leave so I can work my so called magic. So they leave, and it's me and her laying on my hotel bed, she's a little ways down from me. Money in the bank right? WRONG.

I try everything, I'm running my hand over the skin of her back, Im running my hands through her hair, when that doesn't work I even say "come back up here where I am" but she doesn't. I try everything in the book, even not trying, but nothing works. Finally somebody came back to my room to say goodbye, and she ended up catching a ride with them back to her hotel room. I'm so freaking p*ssed off because I thought this was money in the bank, but here I am now with my c*ck in my hand posting on sosuave.com. Sad but true.

Where did I eff this up>? What could I have improved? I'd post pictures of this chick literally hanging and grinding on me on the dance floor but I'm still in my hotel room. I'm here and I'm p*ssed but I don't understand it. Oh as a side note when she said she was going I managed to play it cool, even though I was steaming inside. I pretty much said "All right, layte" or something to that extent. Anyway I'm taking any advice, encouragement, kicks in the a*s, whatever you want to dish out. I'm so upset right now because I should be knee deep in p*ssy, not posting on this g*damned retarded *ss internet site.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Aragon034

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Dude, sometimes it's just not meant to be. from what you're saying, you had a tight game. kept control, had good backup, etc...

But sometimes, a chick just does NOT want a triple x throwdown.

i honestly don't think it's anything you did. but rather something on her side that prevented anything from happening.

Maybe she had explosive diarrhea and didn't want to humliate herself. That HAS happened before. :p
 

broken dreams

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you got Last minute resistance...

you posted here dude instead of banging her so welcome to the club, posting.LoL
 

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Maybe she was on her period. Maybe she was having a herp outbreak. Maybe she had a stomach-ache and needed to leave. You'll never know. I think we guys tend to blame ourselves when our efforts fail and lose site of the fact that it takes two to tango. You can do everything right, but sometimes the girl just doesn't want to spread her legs and she's made her mind about that. Let it go and stop blaming yourself.
 
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