"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So.. does not masturbating actually help you?

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Groovy said:
Btw, do you happen to think that wet dreams have the same effect as MB? It's quite different. Wet dreams don't have the "withdrawal period".
Yes they do share the same function. Both are a way in which your body rids itself of old sperm. Sperm can only stay "alive" for so long and the older they get the less capable they are of swimming, fertilizing, and killing/blocking other sperm and thus the less useful they are. Your body needs a way to purge itself of older, aging sperm so we have masturbation and nocturnal emissions (wet-dreams).

One way or another your body is going to get it out of you. You may as well do it the fun way... out of those two options I mean:p .

Hell read "Sperm Wars" by Robin Baker. Great book. Not only does it explain this topic, but you'll learn a lot of cool things about human sexuality and human nature. Be warned though, it will change the way you think about sex and about women. (Actually, if you're a member of the "evolution is BS" crowd don't bother, the book will just piss you off)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I don't have any scientific evidence of that sort to support my claim.

However, I will say this.

The belief that not masturbating will improve your confidence may be true. But it's such a small confidence boost that I don't believe it's necessary. Your mental confidence boosters will give you much more when it comes to women. Personally, I have sex/whack it all the time and have never had a problem with confidence.

Yes, when I don't have sex for a week or so I'm extra horny. But I don't really need it.

What I do know to be true is that if you abstain from getting the juices out for a long period of time, you will most likely be a minute man in your next adventure in bed. Not so cool.

So I keep it healthy and keep the juices flowin'.
 

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ITT: Tools knowing ****


masturbating doesn't make u weird, dumb etc....
Wack off as much as you like.

In terms of sex, wack off the day of helps a lot in endurance. I remember sex with a day off and didn't last half as long (most of the time). Plus, helps you with self control.
 

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"Not masturbating" only helps if you have another vice/stress reliever to replace it... You have sexual needs and desires which when not met cause stress levels to rise... masturbating is a common/natural way to alleviate this situation. Most do it before they even know what it is... Soo if you opt not to do it be prepared to have other issues till you replace it
 

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lol...
it just stupid man...
dont believe in that!!!
in fact i masturbate before i approach women...
and it improve me about 80%....
im serious...
if i dont masturbate i become needy... loser...
so masturbate a lot...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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somebody2 said:
lol...
it just stupid man...
dont believe in that!!!
in fact i masturbate before i approach women...
and it improve me about 80%....
im serious...
if i dont masturbate i become needy... loser...
so masturbate a lot...
:confused: It works EXACTLY the opposite with me! It improves me 80%! I'm serious!
 

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somebody2 and groovy.
you two should go out together to club...:)
 

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Clubbing??? PFFFT! You go clubbing, I'm either doing sports or action dates! :D
 
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