"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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so does anyone have any advice

stoner1129

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Well first of all i wrestle and there's this one girl who wrestles also and well we both like each other and we're flirting a little bit right now. Well we had to go to a wreslting meeting a couple days ago and we were walking in the hall way at the school and i guess she kept sending me messages (she called me after it and told me so) that she wanted to kiss me so i guess obviously she's into me. I don't really see her that much because she goes to a different school and her brother wresltes and her dad is a coach but i want to hang out with her but i just think it would seem a little weird so does anyone have any advice on how i can go about hanging out with her and what i can do to play around with her?

Also can give me some tips on talking on the phone because for some reason i suck at talking on the phone too?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well of course to play around with her, you can "practice" wrestling with her. Its great for kino, and especially because the attraction and interest is there, it will all be in good fun and as long as you stay playful she'll enjoy it.
Maybe wrestle a bit with her after practice. Great way to build interest.

Hell, if you pin her, you could laugh, brush her hair off her face then kiss her.

One tip that really helps while on the phone is to SMILE when your talking. Of course they can't see it, but they can hear it in your voice that you are happy.
 

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LostAndConfused said:
Well of course to play around with her, you can "practice" wrestling with her. Its great for kino, and especially because the attraction and interest is there, it will all be in good fun and as long as you stay playful she'll enjoy it.
Maybe wrestle a bit with her after practice. Great way to build interest.

Hell, if you pin her, you could laugh, brush her hair off her face then kiss her.

One tip that really helps while on the phone is to SMILE when your talking. Of course they can't see it, but they can hear it in your voice that you are happy.
Best advice your gonna get on this one I reckon. Especially the bit about talking on the phone. I suck at it, and generally I don't do it cos I just find it easier to text even though it's less personal. But when I do talk on the phone if I'm smiling it makes the conversation a lot better.
 

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thx guys those r both good pieces of advice i like them, but i was talking to her earlier on the phone and one of my friends who also wresltes likes her and i've known it, me and her have been flirting around on the phone about a dream she had about me and about how we could hangout sometime, and then i ask her out, she kind of paused and then tells me that my friend likes her and i've known it, and i find out she hung out with him the other day she snuck out of her house and was with him from 10p.m. to 3a.m., she said she didn't do anything with him but she'll hang out with him and not me when she supposedly likes me, and she doesn't answer about if she would go out with me because of him. So what i'm wonderin is, is she like testing me or something or what the hell is up now or, what should i do??? And what i also find confusing is she told me also that she would go all the way with me, and i know she was bein serious, and i KNOW she is a virgin so what now????
 
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