Definitely.
Oh yeah, there are female DJ’s…and there are females that need to be DJ’s. Women are not exempt in needing to hone the efforts and skills in attracting a quality partner.
It doesn’t matter how good looking you are, how much money you have, or if you’re male / or female...if you’re not putting yourself out there, you’re going to end up single. Aka the wall flower. There are a lot of single men and women out there because of that.
Traditionally speaking, girls can expect to be hit on – they do have it easier than men in that respect. They can dress up sexy, hang out at the bar, and rely on that as their main means of meeting men. But its hit and miss - it doesn’t mean they’re going to get what they want in terms of quality or compatibility. A girl is guaranteed a lot of sexual partners that way – but ultimately, she may never find what she’s looking for.
Basically, you get what you put out there….and if a girl relies solely on being a hoe, then she may not attract anything more than male hoes. The people finding quality partners – both male and female, are doing so because they know how to do it. To prey or be preyed on is an individualistic choice.
Generally speaking - I see two schools of thought on this board. Male DJ's who are all about getting f*cked by anyone....and male DJ's who are all about landing a quality woman and f*cking her. The two lines of thought are somewhat different. What I mentioned above applies mainly to the latter - and in this sense, men and women face similar challneges. On the other hand, those women (and men) who are out to get f*cked by anyone, don't face many challenges at all- that is, unless they are highly incompetent and/or notably flawed.
