"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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so... do those bulk up pills and **** work?

Cassanova_Child

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NOt by themselves of course, but as a supplement for an excersise program where I go to the gym every other day, one day working on upper body, and the next working on lower.

My goal isnt to get fit (on varsity baseball team) or to lose weight (im freaking skinny), but specifically to put on muscle. I'm about 5 feet 10 1/2 inches tall and 151 pounds. I don't know how much muscle mass I should put on at my age and height, but I look as skinny as a stick right now. 2/3 of skinny to medium weight girls I have seen have arms ranging from my arms thickness to a lot thicker, and it doesnt look out of place.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Gizmotron

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What are these bulk-up pills that you're talking about? Can you be more specific?
 

Throttle

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best supp for a skinny kid is food, followed by rest. then hit the gym again two days later. no supp can make up for a lack of these.
 

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i seem to keep gaining weight... hit the gym 3x a week...swim 2x a week, sprint 4-5x a week...bball 1-2 a week.. like wtf?!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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yungahdubz

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Why use pills when you can eat like a horse?
 
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