"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So did this girl just lose interest in me?

Prince of the World

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So I was talking to this girl on POF a few weeks ago. We go to the same school, and it seemed like she was really into me. We hit it off, and we were supposed to meet in person last week, but when I texted her to make sure the meeting was still on, she told me she wasn't feeling well, and asked if we could reschedule for this week. i told her it was fine. So I texted her yesterday morning, and I still haven't received any reply. So did this girl all of a sudden lose interest in me or what? I really don't know what happened. She seemed pretty enthusiastic about meeting me, and now she seems completely disinterested.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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OP, just in case your princess is in another castle (she might already be), are you talking to other women?

Just go ghost on her for now. If she's interested, she'll get in touch. But don't hold your breath. Women make time for men they want to see, and confuse men who they don't want to see. Ask yourself if she'd push a date off with Brad Pitt. She wouldn't, she'd rearrange the Earth's orbit to make that happen.
 

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Next her. If she is on pof she is getting hit up by quite a few guys unless she is ugly as all hell. Don't txt her at all no matter what you feel you can say to get her back. All she will do is look at it and put her phone away.

Sorry man but if she was truly interested in you she would have rescheduled with at least a day. I have a feel there is something you aren't telling us in your post. If you haven't met her in person I strongly suggest you look for the guide on txt game and read that, from there you should be able to figure out where you went wrong and learn how to avoid that error in the future.
 

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Thundernuts said:
Next her. If she is on pof she is getting hit up by quite a few guys unless she is ugly as all hell. Don't txt her at all no matter what you feel you can say to get her back. All she will do is look at it and put her phone away.
Oh yeah, i forgot that any girl who doesn't look like a Wildebeest receives tons of male attention on dating sites. She's probably found someone 'better' and moved on.
 

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Not necessarily someone "better" than you but most likely someone better at online dating. I can't tell you how many women on pof have given me number and we txt eachother but as soon as we discuss meeting up they go ghost. I don't know what it is but I always just assume the most realistic thing. unless they delete their profile they are getting hit up by a ton of other guys, that or they are catfishing.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Thundernuts said:
Not necessarily someone "better" than you but most likely someone better at online dating. I can't tell you how many women on pof have given me number and we txt eachother but as soon as we discuss meeting up they go ghost. I don't know what it is but I always just assume the most realistic thing. unless they delete their profile they are getting hit up by a ton of other guys, that or they are catfishing.
Anytime a woman will talk to you but go ghost when it comes time to meet up, you have failed. She feels better about her date that night with Johnny the football player.
 
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