"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So Confusing...

BxPrince24

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Well if you've read my posts a while ago, you've known that I have had a problem with a certain girl in my school. I wanted to get with her. I approached her confidently but she's very freaking off and on. One minute she's cool with me and it's like the other minute she doesn't know me. She likes my artwork, she loves to see what I draw.

There'd be times when I'd try to talk to her and she'd answer with head nods and don't say anything. And she has gotten mad/yelled at me twice. The first time, I was being C&F and I made a joke about her jewelry and she went off on me. She yelled "N*gga shut the F*ck up before I punch you in your f*cking face!" I told her to chill and she walked off. We didn't talk for a few weeks. She came back onto me, she wanted to see what I was drawing, etc... so we started talking again.

The second time, which I admit I was probabably out of line, She gave her other guy friends hugs and she didn't give me one so I was like "ahem... you forgot something" She laughed and continued walking. So I ran up behind her and attemped to lift her up, thats when she turned around mad and said "Are you f*cking stupid?!?! I'll f*ck you up!" Told her to chill and backed off, yet one of my friends did the same thing later on and she didn't care, she laughed and played around with him.

So I look at it as 2 strikes, the 3rd aint gonna be good so let me just stay away. This time we didn't talk for like a month or so. I ignored the hell out of her and continued talking to my/her friends without even looking at her. So last week thursday, I'm in class and we're all in our groups. Then out of no where she comes and asks me for paper, I turn around and look at her desk, she has a binder with paper on her desk along with her group members. I gave her 2 sheets of paper and started talking back to my group members. Later on, I brought a painting that I was working on downstairs to show to my art mentor, she was down there and i walked past her. I looked out of the corner of my eye and saw her breaking her neck to see what I painted.

Yesterday I'm talking to her best friend and helping her out on the computer, then she says she needs my help. Since it's my duty to help the other students in that class, I help her and go back to her best friend. She keeps looking over at me and what not but I don't pay it much attention. This morning I come in and I'm talking to my teacher and my friend and she comes and jumps into the convo, I was like what the hell? she just really seemed to be trying to get my attention today.

What do you guys think of this situation? What would you do?
I'm thinking I should just continue doing what I'm doing and don't pay it any attention.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Luscious

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Number one, just cut ties here. This is one polluted pool to be swimming in. There are many other women that you should be looking for. You deserve someone who is not so off and on and someone who respects you, which leads me to:

Number two, she's an attention wh*re. She's bad news and you KNOW THIS.

Save yourself a boatload of time and drama and cut her off. Nothing good is going to come from this.
 

BxPrince24

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I got that feeling. So I thats what it seems I'll be doing. I'll only speak to her if necessary like what I've been doing. It's just a shame that pretty girls are usually b*tches.
 

Luscious

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Originally posted by BxPrince24
I got that feeling. So I thats what it seems I'll be doing. I'll only speak to her if necessary like what I've been doing. It's just a shame that pretty girls are usually b*tches.
That's how it goes in high school. It gets better in university, so relax and just have fun, regardless.
 
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