So confused...

[BigJolly]

..Hey guys so its been awhile since I have posted anything, but I really need help with this particular situation...

There is this girl that I met through a mutual friend and we started hanging out, I was kinda into her but I think we ended up in the friends zone.. so anyhow a month abouts ago we were at my house and I was going to massage her and pulled her hair back and she said "Dont do that" I was obviously like "huh why?" and she explained that it turned her on, so anyhow I continued to do so until her top was off and I was making out with her and such... all of a sudden she decided that she "cant do this" and got off of me and started crying.. saying she doesnt want to get burned again and a bunch of stuff.

Then a week ago it was her birthday so I took her out for dinner and we walked around a park, then after I dropped her off she kissed me...and I was like whats up with that? She explained "Its a thank you kiss"... I am pretty much getting mixed signals from this chick, sometimes it seems she wants me then the next it seems like she is pretty much using me. What should I do with this situation, boot her? or is there something im doing wrong?

 

[Pierce]

Go for the kill. Why over analyze her. Are you trying to marry her? or are you trying to hook up with her. If your trying to hook up with her then go for the kill.

 

[Tovansky]

something you are doing wrong? of course. thinking too much and considering her feeling too much. remember, extreme masculinity! just attack attack and attack, hopefully this time she doesn't cry.

 

[Nkognito]

Let me shed some light

This picture will explain everything!

 

[Galactus]

Yeah, Nkog, that picture explains why you will never get laid. Money, or lack of it, is the excuse all chumps use.

Pierce and Tovansky are right on. Stop analyzing. Just dive in!

 

[Quality9.99]

"she doesnt want to get burned"...o please she want to get fvcked , no doubt...just dont overanalyze and go for the kill, and keep your masculinity intact, no explaining or stories or other complicated stuff.If she still doesnt put up...you know the rest.

O and a THANK YOU Kiss?...jeezzz ..that hurt me a little, so she kisses you to thank you? or because she wants to get ****ed hard with passion(not that very moment ) and is actualy into you.She's a *****.

From my experience, lets say..my first LTR....I just took her to the park..we were both very much into each other( VERY IMPORTANT)....sat down on a bench...talk a bit...and then just naturally kissed, and it was on.

Bleah the fact that she said "thank you kiss" made me kinda mad, I mean a man who although didnt **** her , but was almost naked with and turned her on badly , took her to dinner and drops her off and she gives a "Thank you kiss".

 

[BigJolly]

Thanks guys, and ya Quality I agree...that thank you kiss thing pissed me off a lot, and to continue on with what happened...I still don't know what the hell to do, she was over the other day and ya was massaging again, got her bra off from behind, and then started to go to pull her hair, then she pretty much got up and put her clothes back on and we continued watching a movie...WHAT THE BLOODY HELL

 

[Nkognito]

Yeah, Nkog, that picture explains why you will never get laid. Money, or lack of it, is the excuse all chumps use.

It posted in the wrong thread :flowers:

Oh and eat a d!ck for labeling me a chump :nono:

 

[Quality9.99]

Honestly now she just sounds like a ****tease..I would have a very serious man to women talk with her...cause nobody gets ****ing hot over and over again and always reconsiders.Be really careful what you do now.I would say...for the fun of it ( why not )...next time try to get her hot again , start kissing her bla bl blblabla...and if she pulls that sh1t again....next her...and ignore her, u never now she might come and give you some after sometime,and in the meanwhile keep spinnin' those plates or sth.( O and "meanwhile" doesnt mean stop spinnin plates if by any chance you do happen to sex her ).

Good luck man.