ok so there's this one girl that used to really like me and i used to really like her...at the beginning of the year. i probably almost had oneitis on her. it was going really nice. but recently we haven't been talking much and she ignores me a lot. anyways, heres what happened at school today. so i was leaving and we run into each other. i say hi and try to walk past. but she blocks me (does the thing where you walk where they do) and then i think i say something like, 'you're crazy', she walks by and i follow her. she says, 'no im not crazy'. we go through this a couple of times with words like, insane, hyper, etc. she just says, no im not...to everything i say. then after that she says, 'guess what i have a stalker.' i say, 'oh...who is it?' she says, 'well its this kid that likes to follow me around after school and he's right next to me'. (i almost never see her after school). then i say, 'want me to leave (a really wuss move i bet)', she doesn't really say anything and we keep walking. now we go to where her friend is, i say hi to her, and i say, 'hey, whats up i'm (girl)'s stalker...apparently'. she doesn't really laugh like i expected her to. then i just talk to her friend for a while, about her job, etc. and im just in the room with her and her friend...but she doesn't seem really interested in me at all. its kinda boring. i say, 'u know what, stalking you is kinda boring', she says, 'then leave'. but she doesn't seem irritated or anything. anyways we just talk about random stuff (us 3) and then the girl's other friend comes in (we were talking about her) and how i caught her kissing her bf this one day after school. anyways yeah i know this other girl pretty well and its kind of fun now...anyways still, she does not show a lot of interest in me, but we're just talking. then its time to leave, the other two leave alone and i leave with her, when we go all she does is say bye kind of fast then we walk away. i don't know what to make of this at all. what is my next step? about the 'stalker'...was she joking? i have no idea what's going on. btw i have more info...please help lol
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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