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[Jay187]

Hey guys I've lurked here for a while and I decided to finally make an account.

Anyways I had a date tonight. Overall it went well we went for a walk and made out a couple times and ended with just laying down looking at the stars. We got back to my car and made out some more and I tryed to escalate. She kept pushing me off and saying just be patient. Now I'm sitting at home with my blue balls. Her reasoning was that her last boyfriend cheated on her after they had sex and "screwed her over and lied an stuff." She also now thinks I'm mad at her because of what happened.

How should I proceed with this do I invite her to do something else and try again or do I wait til she texts me.

 

[The Dapper Napkin]

Congrats on the date first of all!

She had a valid reason for slowing everything down. Bad past experiences do that to girls. The best thing you can do is reach out to her and let her know that you're not mad and that you understand. Then invite her out to something fun and innocent like mini-golf. That's show her that you're just interested in a good time. Don't try to escalate on the date, keep it at the kissing level. You want to get her comfortable with you first. Once she is, she'll be the one jumping on you!

 

[cervantesscthree]

Congrats on the date first of all!

No need to congrat on a date, it's just a date and hopefully one of plenty to come. I'm going to be honest, this girl could very likely turn into a LONG task, don't put that much effort into her and branch out, the more girls in yr web the better.

Take it easy with this girl yr seeing now, but I would strongly advise not to put all of yr time, calls, fuels and attention into her. There's 7 billion people on this planet for a reason don't be afraid to explore another female as you work on this one.

And the whole boyfriend shizzle is shizzle, an excuse is an excuse, keep upping yr game and comments like that will occur less frequent. :rockon: