“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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captain55

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Most of you fellas know I broke up with my gf about 7 weeks ago.

In that time period I Turned my life around... got in better shape,,,started dating other women hotter than her ,.,,, cut contact with my ex....and low and behold a week ago she hit me up and we started talking again. She decided she wanted to meet up with me again today.

.All in all I did everything right when it comes to winning back an ex..........but about an our through the date I just had to face reality. Sometimes there is nothing you can do to make a woman fall back in love with you.


The way I look at it is this- Just because an ex gf sees you dating better looking chicks than her and suddenly regains respect for you as a man, does not mean she is going to want you or desire you the same way she used to.

Im not preaching and I would also like to thank don juan members for helping me through the entire ride with this chick. You guys were there from the first date, helped me get in a 8.5's pants who had a ****load of guys after her...and keep her wrapped around my finger for almost half a year. Couldn't keep her but all in all I can't complain....
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Personally i would just see this whole chapter of your life as a nice bit of experience

It was fun while it lasted but hey, so what nothing lasts forever she wasn’t the first and certainly won’t be the last

Take what positives you can from it and move along with your life

I see life as a whole series of different levels , you accomplish something in life you move up one level a part of you gets better and stronger etc etc

Getting hold up on a chick is detrimental to your health imagine being stuck on the same level for 5 years because you couldn’t get over a piece of pussvy

What a waste of precious time no ?

Well done on the 8.5 now its time to bag yourself a 9

It can & will be done
 

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Great post for all oneitus sufferers.

Seeing it as an achievement, good time, lessons learnt is such a better way of looking at it.

The saying 'don't be sad its over, be glad it happened' finally makes sense.
 
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