"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So close i can almost taste her

Alpine

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A good effort, but I think you may be overselling yourself a bit. Let her see you doing other things with other people, especially girls and just keep in contact.

Typically girls at that age who have left home are the horniest of the lot. But I can't comment on that cos I don't do them that young anymore.:D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Let her stew.

She will wonder why you haven't contacted her. Keep turning it on and off.

Next time you see her be all nice and smilie, ask her what she has been up to etc. Then just walk away.

If she says why you didn't email, have something like well I'm very busy what with xyz.

It's all on here, just keep reading and applying. But the key thing is don't chase, let her see you having a good time with other girls. Occasionally turn it on big style, then just walk away.

When you feel the urge to contact her, stop yourself and read the DJ bible. It's the best investment of your time.
 
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