"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So close i can almost taste her

Alpine

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A good effort, but I think you may be overselling yourself a bit. Let her see you doing other things with other people, especially girls and just keep in contact.

Typically girls at that age who have left home are the horniest of the lot. But I can't comment on that cos I don't do them that young anymore.:D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Let her stew.

She will wonder why you haven't contacted her. Keep turning it on and off.

Next time you see her be all nice and smilie, ask her what she has been up to etc. Then just walk away.

If she says why you didn't email, have something like well I'm very busy what with xyz.

It's all on here, just keep reading and applying. But the key thing is don't chase, let her see you having a good time with other girls. Occasionally turn it on big style, then just walk away.

When you feel the urge to contact her, stop yourself and read the DJ bible. It's the best investment of your time.
 
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