"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So can someone please explain....

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CapedCrusader08

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How strong inner game works? How ignoring works? How to not give a ****? Is it just being inatentive? What about when someone,like a girl asks you something? Is it not being needy? Is it the whole alpha male thing?

Cause I watched this, http://extremebumming.com/amog.html and get the idea,but can't seem to put together something that works for me. I mean,I don't think I have inner game as much as I do inner anger,I just hate everyone.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think the people around here are sick to death of replying to any of your stupid topics.

You are either a very elaborate annoying troll, or you need serious, serious help.

Get off this website, it is not helping you one bit. You need to see a psychologist or something.

Nothing that is said to you gets through, one bit. You just ask question after question.
 
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