"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So can anybody help improve my looks

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BlackMack177

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JPlaya said:
buff meaning huge
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not huge. Just bigger and more athletic

you are not a bad looking dude from that pic. I imagine when you clean up you move up a couple of points into good looking territory

I'd just add a few pounds of muscle (lift and eat eat eat) and get some nice clothes, and nice haircut and you'll be golden.

like another poster said, having a unique style will do wonders for you. wear clothes that fit your style, not just clothes that everyone else tells you to wear
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Iceberg said:
JPlaya, you are seriously the king of the worthless response. Dudes will spend 15 minutes writing up some 2-paragraph response to you, and all you'll have to say is some sh1t like, "but I dont wanna".. Are you slow?
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JPlaya said:
buff meaning huge
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Bahahahaa
 
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JPlaya said:
buff meaning huge
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No. Buff meaning proportional to your bone structure & head. The proper balance between ripped & having muscle mass.

Kind of like the way lions/tigers look as opposed to a buffalo/wilder beast.
 
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Well I've been working on that. I'm doing a lot of benching, dumbells, and some machines at the Y and I'm eating more and also adding a peanut butter to my diet.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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