So are you a player??

[redshift]

..this is the most frequent question i've been hearing for the past 2 weeks from girls i meet. Somehow, i am at a loss for good ****y answers there.

Its actually nice to hear this being said to a former "AFC" , but it makes feel as if i am being seen as a guy who is talking only to fk em and dump em (which is true to a certain extant.. )

I keep hearing these words: You are a player; a real ladies man; so how man girls did you have a relationship with?;

If only they knew my past...

Anyways i tries searching but, it there was too much crap to sort through..so any good c+f stuff to this sorta questions?

Advance thanks!! :cheer:

 

[englishcrap]

Just agree with them and say Yeah I am am a ladies man

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by redshift
..this is the most frequent question i've been hearing for the past 2 weeks from girls i meet. Somehow, i am at a loss for good ****y answers there.

Everyone who is single is a "player", technically. Just some are better than others.

Ask them, "Why, are you attracted to players?" Play it off...never give a straight yes/no answer.

BTW...the fact that they're asking you this means you've got yourself some game. So a big to you.

 

[defiancy]

there was one post i came across that i found pretty good

"yea, but usually my pimp status is more obvious...maybe you can come over to my house sometime and I'll show you my gold chains and fur coat"

something like that

 

[So pimp its scary]

Lines I've personnally used in that situation

Her : Are you a player?

Me : No, I just fvck alot.

Me : No, players are just out looking for sex, I am out actively looking for the person that I'm eventually going to settle down with. If I date a woman for 6 mts, 1yr, 5yrs, before figuring out that she's not my type than I've basically wasted that time where I could have likely found someone that I'm more compatible with.

Me : If you mean that I go out to meet people because I enjoy it, then yes.

Me : Probably ya.

Me : Yes, but no more than most women play men.

 

[strong like bull]

aside from c/f replies, there are also some truthful ones that set her up to validate herself against your requirements for a GF. e.g.

i like to keep my options open until im sure the woman is right for me.

lately i just havent gotten to know a girl who has everything im looking for.


and if youre already dating/fvcking her and shes asking you to be monogamous to her and you arent down... dont be afraid to tell her "im just not ready for anything serious right now."

player or not... at least be honest with the women. c/f, playful teasing and seduction are all great but after a certain point youre really misleading and being deceitful to them. dont be one of those weak guys who lies to the warmhearted girl, telling her theyre exclusive while hes going around behind her back fvcking barflies and party slvts.

-SLB

 

[TheMasterOfBation]

...

just use this "Im as much of a player as you are"..never give a straight answer

 

[Casino]

just say some off the wall ish..

it's a sh!t test..

she is expecting you to say "nah" and be all apologetic..but if you say some ish like "yah, im the man"

or something ****y just reaffirming you are a player she'll like that you stand up for yourself.

she'll probably try to bang you.l

 

[BlackJackal]

I'm an honest man, so I just say yea. I see no reason to lie. And the truth doesn't chase them away.

 

[spider_007]

not really, I used to play a gitar, but that was a while ago.

 

[Hunchback]

Her: Are you a player?
Me: Shut the **** up.

 

[Kerm]

Originally posted by Hunchback
Her: Are you a player?
Me: Shut the **** up.

Haha.

This one girl i was working for a while started to get kind of upset at me because i always told her to shut up. Owel


Her: are you a player?

Me: Yes..... i play basketball, softball, blah blah