"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So apparently I'm a TATTLE TALE

jcb1772

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So there's this popular group of a few jock/"gangsta" guys at my school...I socialize with them, don't hang out though. They made this facebook online club about a cool teacher at my school and how they've all experienced his "wrath" and such. My friends and I happened to be on the main site in his class, and the teacher came by and laughed at something. Soo, I thought hey, this teacher has a good sense of humor, what will he think of the club dedicated to him?

Huge mistake. The teacher thought it was funny (laughed) BUT there was something on it apparently that might have offended him and he said he was going to get the leader in trouble. I protested and said don't get any of them in trouble, it was just a joke, etc...he laughed and said he'd make sure the blame isn't on me. As good as his intentions are, I don't think he can prevent that. In fact, I think it's too late...

BECAUSE some people nearby blamed me and weren't happy that those jocks were going to get busted. So naturally, they told the jocks (and the leader) that I showed the teacher their club.

Now the whole jock group of about 5 is turning their backs against me. The leader (who I usually talk to a lot in one class) seems to hate me now, he actually acted extremely bully-like, threatening me that he could break my arms off and squeezing the life out of my hand. Not to mention the people who were with me are spreading the whole incident around to everyone, and I mean EVERYONE. I'm in a private school of about 100 per class, so it's really no exageration to say that I just earned a *****y tattle-take reputation today. And everyone HATES bratty tattle-tales.

I REALLY need some help here. I am not a tattle-tale, and I TRIED to explain that I only showed the page thinking the teacher would laugh. I was honestly not trying to get them in trouble. But of course nobody thinks that. I hope the whole thing blows away and is forgotten, but how can I defend myself vocally in this case? For that matter physically as well (like that instant with the bully when he was squeezing my small skinny hand like a stress ball).

This is seriously bothering me. I've never felt like the majority of the class hates me before. I realize now I was pretty stupid and shouldn't have shown the teacher in the first place, but I can't change the past. Help would be massively appreciated.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AC/DC

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Oh wow.

I really don't know what to say; this is pathetic. Not you, but the situation.
 

i am me

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sucks for u....wrong place, wrong time...id try talkin to the teacher again.
 

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Heh, no kidding. Well today I'm going to try to explain to the bully leader (who is, err was someone I get along with) that I wasn't trying to get him in trouble. Then apologize for the trouble it's caused him. If he still can't forgive me and forget about it after that then I dunno what I'll do.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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