"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

So apparently, even if you're DISABLED, you can have standards?

HeyPachuco!

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 6, 2009
Messages
618
Reaction score
12
So, long time guys, haven't posted a thread in ages.

But I'm really really really really con-fvcking-fused right now and a little flustered. So I go to meet this girl off an online dating site, about 2 months ago. She had all her up-to-date pics up of her, including her STANDING UP, (wait for it)....

So I go to the location we was meant to meet, I turn around and I see a girl limping down the street, I said fvck its her, but why was she LIMPING?

I came to find out, that she is actually mentally retarded (self claim), and had a stroke when she was a little younger, which has made her walk the way she does. Mind you, this girls face and body is HOT, it's just the walk and her speech problems thats stop her from being completly hot to some guys.

So, me, being the man, walks with her for abit, fluff talk (I wanted to bail out), but I felt BAD if I did. So then we're at her house, sitting down, get a kiss close, she pulls her trousers down and takes my hand, rubbing it on her pvsssy, I felt kinda fvcked up, because she obviously doesn't get around (so I thought).

So it's THIS WEEK and I see an arguement unspiraling on her Facebook with her friend that came the last time, her friend is spouting how she is this and that, biggest whor around, sucks d!ck in the cinema etc etc!

Me, thinking this girl doesn't even go out much, due to her case, but it hit me when she is playing shyt games with me now, some guys here asking why are you even talking to a retard, she is NOT RETARDED, she uses that as a victim status, she has a hot body and everything!

So my question guys, apparently you can be SEMI-DISABLED and have self-worth and run shyt tests games? It didn't say that in the Rules? :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

kingsam

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 12, 2010
Messages
989
Reaction score
13
Location
England, baby!
you should have banged her then never talked to her again.....
shes crazy and probably good for an easy lay... if you do go ther do it once, and total NC after!

its quite a good boast "i fvcked a retard!"
:D
 

ArcBound

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 15, 2009
Messages
1,525
Reaction score
114
Location
U.S. East
It gets her double the men. Do you ever notice how some men (betas) try to go for certain chicks because they feel she will be easier? Well your girl has a hot body to attract people, and a flaw in which men think she will be easier to pick up. Probably gets so much action.

Lol though I imagine her captain save a ho game would be amazing
 

HeyPachuco!

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 6, 2009
Messages
618
Reaction score
12
Ahahah,

yeah but the funny thing is, that she actually gets horny whenever I see her (by accident) and then gets hot and cold when ever I'm not with her, it's strange, because she puts on this bullshyt face to make her out the victim, when in reality, she has been around the block and back and encourages this behaviour. I can't believe I'm even writing up a thread for a retard LOL, has it gotten that bad guys, really?
 

stayfly

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 30, 2006
Messages
207
Reaction score
4
HeyPachuco! said:
So, long time guys, haven't posted a thread in ages.

But I'm really really really really con-fvcking-fused right now and a little flustered. So I go to meet this girl off an online dating site, about 2 months ago. She had all her up-to-date pics up of her, including her STANDING UP, (wait for it)....

So I go to the location we was meant to meet, I turn around and I see a girl limping down the street, I said fvck its her, but why was she LIMPING?

I came to find out, that she is actually mentally retarded (self claim), and had a stroke when she was a little younger, which has made her walk the way she does. Mind you, this girls face and body is HOT, it's just the walk and her speech problems thats stop her from being completly hot to some guys.

So, me, being the man, walks with her for abit, fluff talk (I wanted to bail out), but I felt BAD if I did. So then we're at her house, sitting down, get a kiss close, she pulls her trousers down and takes my hand, rubbing it on her pvsssy, I felt kinda fvcked up, because she obviously doesn't get around (so I thought).

So it's THIS WEEK and I see an arguement unspiraling on her Facebook with her friend that came the last time, her friend is spouting how she is this and that, biggest whor around, sucks d!ck in the cinema etc etc!

Me, thinking this girl doesn't even go out much, due to her case, but it hit me when she is playing shyt games with me now, some guys here asking why are you even talking to a retard, she is NOT RETARDED, she uses that as a victim status, she has a hot body and everything!

So my question guys, apparently you can be SEMI-DISABLED and have self-worth and run shyt tests games? It didn't say that in the Rules? :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
wtf is wrong with you bro?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

wait_out

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 2, 2008
Messages
590
Reaction score
41
Location
Too many places at once
Your thread title is ridiculous. Of course you can have standards if you're disabled. If you honestly think disabled people don't deserve rights, standards, self-worth, it just makes you a flaming douchebag, not superior.

Have you ever seen murderball? Or Mark Zupan trying to jump a lake in a rocket-powered wheelchair in Jackass 2?

http://www.abc.net.au/queensland/stories/s1453177.htm said:
One of the most candid parts of the documentary is when the Murderball players discuss their sex lives. Mark Zupan says he has a wonderful relationship with his girlfriend Jessica. "It has forced me to think about my partner more and we have a lot of fun trying [different positions]. We fall off the bed sometimes," he laughs.
Question to you: do you think a charming, inspirational and funny quad athelete is more attractive to women than some average insecure guy with an ugly personality?

Smarten up kid.
 

HeyPachuco!

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 6, 2009
Messages
618
Reaction score
12
wait_out said:
Your thread title is ridiculous. Of course you can have standards if you're disabled. If you honestly think disabled people don't deserve rights, standards, self-worth, it just makes you a flaming douchebag, not superior.

Have you ever seen murderball? Or Mark Zupan trying to jump a lake in a rocket-powered wheelchair in Jackass 2?



Question to you: do you think a charming, inspirational and funny quad athelete is more attractive to women than some average insecure guy with an ugly personality?

Smarten up kid.
Now this is where you failed to read the entire thread and concentrated on the title for you're own tales of wisdom for the disabled and hard of hearing. Is this girl an attractive, funny athelete? No.

The problem is the girl claiming to be MENTALLY RETARDED, because she has SPEECH endemic or whatever you call it, claiming the VICTIM status because of this, THEN, for her to be the whor of the town as it so finally came to the light. Thats my problem.

Why the fvck would I take a stab at disabled people for you shmuck, she isn't even confined to a wheelchair, shes been here, there and everywhere, sorry, but you can't HAVE STANDARDS being a whor who has speech endemic.

You White Knights in shining armour really agitate me back here. Comparing an devoted DISABLED athelete to a whor who has no ambition or motivation nd cries for attention whilst playing shyt tests with guys because of her problem? Acting asif you would date girls confined to a wheelchair even if they where considered HB.10's? GTFO!

P.S - To answer you're question, NO, I dont think a funny, athletic, inspirational quad man confined to wheelechair or partially disabled will attract more women than you're example of me, Why? because women are shallow and callous, get real. They're genetically programmed in the sea of strife to be attracted to those who can protect, provide and are healthy (Not that disablities make you less of these). So tired of some of you greenback, global warming, RSPCA idiots making out to be cotton candy on here.
 

stayfly

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 30, 2006
Messages
207
Reaction score
4
HeyPachuco! said:
Now this is where you failed to read the entire thread and concentrated on the title for you're own tales of wisdom for the disabled and hard of hearing. Is this girl an attractive, funny athelete? No.

The problem is the girl claiming to be MENTALLY RETARDED, because she has SPEECH endemic or whatever you call it, claiming the VICTIM status because of this, THEN, for her to be the whor of the town as it so finally came to the light. Thats my problem.

Why the fvck would I take a stab at disabled people for you shmuck, she isn't even confined to a wheelchair, shes been here, there and everywhere, sorry, but you can't HAVE STANDARDS being a whor who has speech endemic.

You White Knights in shining armour really agitate me back here. Comparing an devoted DISABLED athelete to a whor who has no ambition or motivation nd cries for attention whilst playing shyt tests with guys because of her problem? Acting asif you would date girls confined to a wheelchair even if they where considered HB.10's? GTFO!

P.S - To answer you're question, NO, I dont think a funny, athletic, inspirational quad man confined to wheelechair or partially disabled will attract more women than you're example of me, Why? because women are shallow and callous, get real. They're genetically programmed in the sea of strife to be attracted to those who can protect, provide and are healthy (Not that disablities make you less of these). So tired of some of you greenback, global warming, RSPCA idiots making out to be cotton candy on here.
so let me get this right. you are saying;

1. that she has had a serious stroke that has left with with walking and speech difficulties and you are claiming that she is trying to use her disability as a ploy to seduce guys?

2. because someone on Facebook is saying nasty things about her she is now classified as the "town *****"?

3. I don't understand the part about how she can't have standards. can you explain that to me please bro?
 

Ease

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 23, 2009
Messages
1,320
Reaction score
51
Why are you hating on a disabled girl

Wtf is wrong with you. She cant have standards because she is disabled?

I hope you dont suffer a serious accident.
 

wait_out

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 2, 2008
Messages
590
Reaction score
41
Location
Too many places at once
I don't believe we're talking about global warming, P.

Do you think disabled people have the right to standards & self-worth? Say yes or no, this is not complicated.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Desdinova

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2004
Messages
11,681
Reaction score
4,879
So my question guys, apparently you can be SEMI-DISABLED and have self-worth and run shyt tests games?
Women are women, regardless of their physical abilities or disabilities.

Many of the disabled want to be treated like normal people, but some of them will play the disabled card to get attention, pity, and even money.
 

HeyPachuco!

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 6, 2009
Messages
618
Reaction score
12
wait_out said:
I don't believe we're talking about global warming, P.

Do you think disabled people have the right to standards & self-worth? Say yes or no, this is not complicated.
Ofcourse disabled people are intitled to standards, but what standards are we talking about here? Are talking about picking our partners or generalizing in day-to-day life?

Would you date a girl in a Wheelchair, Forrest? Say yes or no, that shouldn't be complicated.
 

HeyPachuco!

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 6, 2009
Messages
618
Reaction score
12
Desdinova said:
Women are women, regardless of their physical abilities or disabilities.

Many of the disabled want to be treated like normal people, but some of them will play the disabled card to get attention, pity, and even money.
Case closed ^^

Infact, I wont even bother replying to the people crying blood for somebody they will not even date themselves, but rather toot there own horn because they're BORED. To ALL 2010 NEWBS, be careful to who you listen to on here and take what users with LITTLE rep have with a grain of salt.

P.S blown_out, you never asked me the question whether disabled people where intitled to self-worth or self-importance, you asked whether a funny, intelligent, charming athelete could attract more women instead of a average insecure doucheee, and I said "NO". Get you're breath back.
 

HeyPachuco!

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 6, 2009
Messages
618
Reaction score
12
Ease said:
Why are you hating on a disabled girl

Wtf is wrong with you. She cant have standards because she is disabled?

I hope you dont suffer a serious accident.
This is the type of shaming tactic, which leads members of this forum to leave, it's this d!ckheaded analogy and chav-flaming tactic which is why I can't hold my tougue when I should, certain guys seriously when they spout this menstaul mush......... :cuss:

Tommorow, if I were to go deaf, dumb and blind, couldn't use my legs or limbs or started speaking like a veggie, I would automatically KNOW I can't get a HB9 or 10. I'd be happy to be ALIVE.

When it comes to finding my partner, I'd find someone amongst my own caliber, standard and who shares common traits as me. Now, kudos to the guys who're actually disabled and have found what wasn't expected of them, they must have a real LOVING partner with a heart of gold. Awesome.

You see dwarfs with dwarfs, deaf with deaf, DS's with DS's in relationships more than the other way around. It's just in there caliber, they're happy, they don't want to go outside of that category thinking they're hotshyt and can get what isn't expected of them.
 

falconslax89

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 23, 2009
Messages
249
Reaction score
3
Location
Earth
my question is...you are 21...why the **** are you trying to meet girls on dating sites???????????
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

stayfly

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 30, 2006
Messages
207
Reaction score
4
HeyPachuco! said:
This is the type of shaming tactic, which leads members of this forum to leave, it's this d!ckheaded analogy and chav-flaming tactic which is why I can't hold my tougue when I should, certain guys seriously when they spout this menstaul mush......... :cuss:

Tommorow, if I were to go deaf, dumb and blind, couldn't use my legs or limbs or started speaking like a veggie, I would automatically KNOW I can't get a HB9 or 10. I'd be happy to be ALIVE.

When it comes to finding my partner, I'd find someone amongst my own caliber, standard and who shares common traits as me. Now, kudos to the guys who're actually disabled and have found what wasn't expected of them, they must have a real LOVING partner with a heart of gold. Awesome.

You see dwarfs with dwarfs, deaf with deaf, DS's with DS's in relationships more than the other way around. It's just in there caliber, they're happy, they don't want to go outside of that category thinking they're hotshyt and can get what isn't expected of them.
there's more to relationships than physical attributes bro

you're way of thinking is highly offensive my dude

maybe try not judging people by their physical attributes sometime
 

HeyPachuco!

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 6, 2009
Messages
618
Reaction score
12
falconslax89 said:
my question is...you are 21...why the **** are you trying to meet girls on dating sites???????????
Not sure dude, maybe It makes a difference if I chat to a girl on FACEBOOK, I've never met. Is that the samething or ......
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=173117


And @ stayfly: I could give a fvck, stop crying like a little whiney b!tch, making out its a stab at disabled. Just walk away. So saying what you just said, would you date a girl in a wheelchair, I'd like to know? If I was offensive to disabled or felt a way, why would I even be wasting my time with this chick? And yes, her friend that called her those names, was there when she told me about the cinema cvcksucking, I looked at the girl I'm speaking to, and she smiled and denied, c'mon dude, you're sympathy goes on deaf ears with me.
 

stayfly

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 30, 2006
Messages
207
Reaction score
4
HeyPachuco! said:
Not sure dude, maybe It makes a difference if I chat to a girl on FACEBOOK, I've never met. Is that the samething or ......
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=173117


And @ stayfly: I could give a fvck, stop crying like a little whiney b!tch, making out its a stab at disabled. Just walk away. So saying what you just said, would you date a girl in a wheelchair, I'd like to know? If I was offensive to disabled or felt a way, why would I even be wasting my time with this chick? And yes, her friend that called her those names, was there when she told me about the cinema cvcksucking, I looked at the girl I'm speaking to, and she smiled and denied, c'mon dude, you're sympathy goes on deaf ears with me.
watch what you say bro. show some respect.

and of course I'd date a girl in a wheelchair. what reason would I have not to?

so what if she gave a dude head in the cinema? you've never got head in a cinema before? there's nothing wrong with a girl (or guy) having an active sex life. what's wrong is trying to use details of someone's intimate life to insult and hurt that person.

if you don't want to be with her, cool. move on. no need to make a thread talking about how disabled people shouldn't have standards or should only date other disabled people or that you shouldn't waste your time making a thread about a "retard".
 

wait_out

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 2, 2008
Messages
590
Reaction score
41
Location
Too many places at once
What is provoking these reactions, P, is that you seem to believe you're owed some kind of personal/sexual power over disabled people, just because you're not disabled yourself.

Regardless of what you think, they do have the right to screen you as a partner. Yeah, life is hard, I know.

Des' response was on the money but this thread makes you look bad. Self-assured guys can admit when they say something stupid and move beyond it quickly. Crying about people 'shaming' you and picking fights just makes you look insecure and petty.

This is something you might want to work on.

HeyPachuco! said:
So, long time guys, haven't posted a thread in ages.
Better luck with the next one. :down:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Top