"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So am I reading this right?

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So I'm in the National Guard. There is this fellow female Soldier that is in another unit that I met one drill weekend.

I didn't think much of it at the time because she is married, but I was joking around with her a lot and we got to talking and she was showing fairly high interest level. Well I didn't get a number or anything because she was married and didn't think much about her after that.

Well a few drills later we ran into each other again and she walks up to me and starts talking and asks me for my number. She said she couldn't believe she didn't get it last time we talked. So I gave it to her not thinking much about it.

The next drill she texts me asking what I was up to and if I was coming to her unit that weekend and I didn't respond to that but just said I was busy doing other stuff.

Well she texts me the rest of the day, and I give short answers but still joke around a little bit. She goes as far as saying her like-ability in me has gone up a lot recently. I didn't respond to that and just changed the subject.

So, haven't texted or seen her since earlier this month and I was wondering is this chick just looking for attention while she is at drill and away from her husband or what?

Thanks.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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