"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So am I reading this right?

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So I'm in the National Guard. There is this fellow female Soldier that is in another unit that I met one drill weekend.

I didn't think much of it at the time because she is married, but I was joking around with her a lot and we got to talking and she was showing fairly high interest level. Well I didn't get a number or anything because she was married and didn't think much about her after that.

Well a few drills later we ran into each other again and she walks up to me and starts talking and asks me for my number. She said she couldn't believe she didn't get it last time we talked. So I gave it to her not thinking much about it.

The next drill she texts me asking what I was up to and if I was coming to her unit that weekend and I didn't respond to that but just said I was busy doing other stuff.

Well she texts me the rest of the day, and I give short answers but still joke around a little bit. She goes as far as saying her like-ability in me has gone up a lot recently. I didn't respond to that and just changed the subject.

So, haven't texted or seen her since earlier this month and I was wondering is this chick just looking for attention while she is at drill and away from her husband or what?

Thanks.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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