"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So a girl i'm interested had her father die

AlexKaiser

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Car Crash. Closed casket. She invited me to go with her. Should I start tearing into her now and making her feel like ****, or wait until after her grieving is passed? I know this sounds like a troll thread but it's not, this seems like the perfect time to stop being a nice guy to her, even though the voices in my head are screaming no.

The funeral is tomorrow, would that be the best time to ask for her number?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TheFixer14

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Right when she is at the open casket. Don't even go for the number, just tell her "let's get away from this" , pull her into the bathroom and **** her.
 

El Payaso

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What does asking for her number accomplish?

You should develop some rapport with her first then tell her she should get dinner (or whatever thing you have planned) with you on whatever day and whatever time.

If she agrees, then you ask for her number

Regardless, if she was really close to her father, her interest in anything will drop to zero for a while and that includes dating or talking to anyone.
 

RangerMIke

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If you haven't known her very long, you run the risk of building negative rapport with this chick. You really do not want to build anything with a chick with the foundation of a death in her family.
 

SgtSplacker

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Ditch that crap. No number but you have to support her at a funeral???!!! Friend zone alert is going off here.

A woman that wants to get sexual with you would not invite you to something where she will not be putting her best foot forward. Maybe she would invite you to her place after for sex to feel better but not the funeral.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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