"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So a girl i'm interested had her father die

AlexKaiser

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Car Crash. Closed casket. She invited me to go with her. Should I start tearing into her now and making her feel like ****, or wait until after her grieving is passed? I know this sounds like a troll thread but it's not, this seems like the perfect time to stop being a nice guy to her, even though the voices in my head are screaming no.

The funeral is tomorrow, would that be the best time to ask for her number?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TheFixer14

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Right when she is at the open casket. Don't even go for the number, just tell her "let's get away from this" , pull her into the bathroom and **** her.
 

El Payaso

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What does asking for her number accomplish?

You should develop some rapport with her first then tell her she should get dinner (or whatever thing you have planned) with you on whatever day and whatever time.

If she agrees, then you ask for her number

Regardless, if she was really close to her father, her interest in anything will drop to zero for a while and that includes dating or talking to anyone.
 

RangerMIke

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If you haven't known her very long, you run the risk of building negative rapport with this chick. You really do not want to build anything with a chick with the foundation of a death in her family.
 

SgtSplacker

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Ditch that crap. No number but you have to support her at a funeral???!!! Friend zone alert is going off here.

A woman that wants to get sexual with you would not invite you to something where she will not be putting her best foot forward. Maybe she would invite you to her place after for sex to feel better but not the funeral.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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