"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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snooping around..

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ive been seeing some chick for about 3 years now. on and off but the offs were always brcause i made it happen. i didnt want a relationship so i wouldnt comit to her. ive "broken" up with her about 4 times in the past 3 years. now after being with other girls im realizing i really like this chick..

now i know i should have done it, but she left her e mail account open on my computer, and when i she left i realized that. so i started snooping around.

i saw that when id break up with her shed go out and f*** people, some i knew who they were and others i didnt. i saw a pattern that she only did this when id break up with her. shed stop when id get back with her even told the dudes to F*** off and told friends of friends "tell him im with the one i love now so i dont need him" i know she loves me but i think i would have been better off not knowing that she screwed around during our breaks.

so i dont know it hit me pretty hard when i found out these things and i know i brought it upon myself. and i know im no angel.

so would you guys stay with her or drop her???
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DJDamage said:
You should have finished with her a long time ago, you next her for a reason so don't complain when those things come back to haunt you.
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I have to agree with DJDamage. Why drop her cause she fvcked other guys when you broke up with her. Wouldn't you fvck other girls if she dumped you? And atleast she ain't cheating on you, hopefully.

By the way... make sure you use a condom. Who know's whos been in your girls pvssy lately!
 
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well i know she doesnt cheat on me, i see her very often and thats why i would break up with her to have my space so i guess i did do my deeds when i did break up with her. ehh ill keep her around and see how things go.
 
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You should communicate with her more about you needing your space. COMMUNICATION is KEY for a relationship.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yeah i do, then she takes it the wrong way and feels rejected like i dont want her anymore. know what i mean??
 
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Well if she cant respect how you feel and understand you have needs too. Then, maybe you have to find another broad.
 
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If it were me I'd dump her. I don't want to be with a girl that immediately goes out and f*cks a guy as soon as we break up. What's that say about her? She just needs a nob to ride? That or she has some emotional issues.

A lot of guys on this forum will probably disagree with my point of view, but I'm the type of person that isn't just out to f*ck. I intentionally wait a while after getting out of a relationship before fooling around with anyone else. I think that shows strength whereas immediately running into someone elses arms shows dependency and weakness.
 
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I got no problem with what anyone said here.

You can't blame her going out and finding
other dudes after you broke up with her nacho.

so would you guys stay with her or drop her???
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Well... sure why not stay with her just don't go steady.
I also highly recommend you go and date other women.
 
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