(Inspired from a recent thread)
Scenario: You've been in a relationship with a woman for nearly a year, exclusive for the last 4 months. Still living separately, both finished with school and both into their own careers. However in the past 2 weeks something isn't sitting right. She's mentioned a 'friendly' co-worker several times, canceled one get together and late coming over twice after work. Now, you're at her place she's upstairs doing something and the phone rings, she asks you to answer and it's her sister who got back early from a business trip and needs a ride from the airport. She quickly zips off to the airport leaving you at her place to hang out until she's back. And her PC is still on. And her cell phone is laying on the table. In the moment you have one of two basic choices:
1.) You look through her email and/or cell phone either to confirm your suspicions or ally your fears.
2.) You take the moral high ground (or whatever you choose to call it) refusing to snoop and invade her privacy. Basically, you'll deal with it another way at a different time.
I'm not asking what you think is right, rather I'm curious what you think you would really do in this situation?
Scenario: You've been in a relationship with a woman for nearly a year, exclusive for the last 4 months. Still living separately, both finished with school and both into their own careers. However in the past 2 weeks something isn't sitting right. She's mentioned a 'friendly' co-worker several times, canceled one get together and late coming over twice after work. Now, you're at her place she's upstairs doing something and the phone rings, she asks you to answer and it's her sister who got back early from a business trip and needs a ride from the airport. She quickly zips off to the airport leaving you at her place to hang out until she's back. And her PC is still on. And her cell phone is laying on the table. In the moment you have one of two basic choices:
1.) You look through her email and/or cell phone either to confirm your suspicions or ally your fears.
2.) You take the moral high ground (or whatever you choose to call it) refusing to snoop and invade her privacy. Basically, you'll deal with it another way at a different time.
I'm not asking what you think is right, rather I'm curious what you think you would really do in this situation?