"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sneaky Move??

illmatic1005

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ok..abefore we went out, my girlfriend went out with 2 diff guys that looked similar and are both good looking...they have light brown/blondish hair and look like Ashley Parker Angel...One of her past bf's looked EXACTLY like him..and a few weeks be4 we went out, she would always tell her friends how she thought her ex-bf was soooo hot..

So..on my GF's myspace, she just put a picture of Ashley Parker Angel and udnerneath said
"i love 'illmatic1005', but Ashley Parker Angel is SOO HOT ;-))) "

and she put all over her myspace "Ashley Parker Angel <333333" but no sing of my name

now normally i wouldnt mind..hes a celebrity its normal.....

But the fact that he looks like 2 of my gf's past boyfriends makes me a little suspicious.

is this anything to worry about?
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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I wouldn't worry about it. But, if all she wants to talk about is her exes... Than, I would say to her; "Hey since you seem to talk about ur exes alot you must still have feelings for them. So, we can break this relationship off right now if you want."
 

illmatic1005

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
I wouldn't worry about it. But, if all she wants to talk about is her exes... Than, I would say to her; "Hey since you seem to talk about ur exes alot you must still have feelings for them. So, we can break this relationship off right now if you want."
she rarely talks about her ex's...she only does if we bump into one and all she says is "uggh i hate him so much" or "ughh hes so annoying''
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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how often does she run into her exes.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WC2

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I wouldn't worry about it unless she starts getting sketchy. Remember, girls like good looking guys but they don't stay with a guy just because hes good looking. If you're more spontaneous and confident then you're the man of the relationship.
 

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W.evs I would get a pic of Jessica Alba and do the same thing.
 

KontrollerX

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Yeah don't worry unless she eventually starts acting distant and making bullsh!t excuses for not getting together with you when you want to see her.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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