Sneaky Internet Dating Tip

[slaog]

I was sending a message to a girl the other week and was getting only luke warm responces. All of a sudden she completely changed and started coming on strong gave me her msn and number.

I couldn't make out why but I then found out. On the site was message boards and a section where you can introduce yourself. One of the girls I was chatting to said on my introduction thread that I was, smart, witty, fun and bet I've loads of girls after me. After I saw that I knew the other girl read it.

When she read another girl saying all these good things about me it obviously made her become alot more interested.

So what do you do you might ask!

You know the way some sites like plentyoffish have testimonials where somebody writes about how great you are basically. Well if you want one of those write one yourself!! Create another profile (as a woman of course) and basically tell the world how great you are!

guarenteed to improve your chances. I didn't do it yet but I'll wait for a dry period.

WARNING: I know it's not honest but it's just a way to get a few dates. The more you lie the more she'll be turned off on a date.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Well , imo guys who write in this sites are loners . Girls too .

Why would a guy who is DJ and have lot of girls around him go on this sites to meet girls that he never saw ?

Anyways good idea for the ones that use this sites .

 

[War Against Betaism]

I think a more universal tip is to have a girl leave you a testimonial on your myspace page since a lot of people have a myspace.

 

[MacAvoy]

I think its a great tip. We all have to start somewhere. Its a tip that will get you results and if your just starting out, then thats what you need.

 

[MotownMack]

Take this for what it's worth, but testimonials can back fire too, when it comes to online dating. It's far from guaranteed to improve your chances, but depending on the girl, it can help.

I think this is because pre-selection with online dating works a little differently. The number of players and guys trolling is pretty rampant, and if they are rampant. Some girls can (and do) take the testimonials the wrong way.

I am not just KBJing here, I tried it. There was a girl I dated who decided we would remain friends, and I teased her by saying that she needed to leave me one to make me look good. There was not really a notable increase in the number of messages I received.

It's also been discussed in the forums there as well. The most common response from the women is "If this person is so great, why are THEY dating them?" (take that for what it's worth, their comments, not mine)

Mostly, I think testimonials are just ignored, because half of the ones I read are left buy guys that never even actually met the girl (it usually says in right in the testminonial), just chatted with them once (and same for the women). So a lot of people just end up ignoring them.

My personal feelings: I usually ignore them. But when I see a girl on a million favorites or too many testimonials, I do sometimes get the AW vibe.

 

[slaog]

All I can say is a bit of praise worked wonders for me.

I think if you went overboard with it people would notice.

I think its a great tip. We all have to start somewhere. Its a tip that will get you results and if your just starting out, then thats what you need.

Yeah thats the whole point of it. It's a start. It's not a long term solution because they'll get to know you anyway but it helps somebody get to know you.

Some people might be useless at writing profiles so this could help.

 

[MotownMack]

^^Yeah, I am not saying it can't help. I actually tried it as kind of an experiment, because one guy posted in the POF forums that a testimonial sent his responses through the roof (or so he thought, anyway).

The girl that wrote mine actually did a great job (I told her to write it, and she thought it would be fun), and wrote one of the better ones I'd ever seen. Personally though, I just can't say as though I recall it generating a lot more messages.

 

[logicallefty]

Well if you want one of those write one yourself!! Create another profile (as a woman of course) and basically tell the world how great you are!
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I have always been a big fan of social proof tricks like this, and have been flamed on this site already for some of my tactics with social proof. Social proof is the most powerful tool a man has. My favorite one is the fact that I keep a fake chick Myspace profile. Whenever the comments slow down on my real profile from the real chicks, or I sense the IL of a chick I am seeing to go down, I post one comment from my fake chick profile. All the sudden the comments pick right back up IMMEDIATELY from the real ones. All the sudden that woman with sliding IL wants to see me again, especially if the other comments I get are sexual related...

 

[BeyondCharm]

I have always been a big fan of social proof tricks like this, and have been flamed on this site already for some of my tactics with social proof. Social proof is the most powerful tool a man has. My favorite one is the fact that I keep a fake chick Myspace profile. Whenever the comments slow down on my real profile from the real chicks, or I sense the IL of a chick I am seeing to go down, I post one comment from my fake chick profile. All the sudden the comments pick right back up IMMEDIATELY from the real ones. All the sudden that woman with sliding IL wants to see me again, especially if the other comments I get are sexual related...

Very clever, that's some Sun Tzu right there.

I recommend befriending a few party-girls if you like the partying lifestyle. When I say befriend, I mean, keep things casual and fun. These girls become your ultimate wingmen.

I have these two girls, HB7 blonde and HB7 brunette's, one with an HB8 face, that I bring out to parties with me just to make things more fun. They hit me up every weekend and only when I'm feeling like it do I pick them up. I'll take them clubbing and they will follow me around, do what I say and are just fun people. They introduce me to girls they know and walk into social circles instantly. offering easy instant access to any social circle. They will boost me up providing testimonials of how cool I am and fun to hang with and they are just fun to party with.

Added bonus is I can leave with either or both of them at any time if I want.