“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Kbish828

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I am new to the whole snapchat thing, but have realized girls (especially in their 20's) love it and will use it. However, it took me awhile to realize this is also a test by them to see if you are a beta or alpha. I finally realized I was being a p**** by responding to snaps with stupid pics of myself.

Also I found it is even less personal than texts. If I have not contacted a girl for awhile, she will send a random snap, almost to say "hi, remember me".

Anyone else have experience with snapchat?
 

Skyline

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Yes. My generation has every girl equipped with this Snapchat.

It's not really any different from regular texting in my opinion. I usually don't take pictures of myself so instead i snap like a wall or something random instead. So the times I take a picture of myself its like "rare" to see my beautiful face. And sometimes I just view it and not really reply.
 

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They can keep track of when you view their snap. If a girl routinely sends stupid generic sh*t, stop opening anything from her or just defriend her. It only feeds her ego and if you're quickly opening them you appear beta anyways.
 

Don_Dom

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Keep hearing about this.

For the benefit of us elderly folks, 'splain how snapchat works, please?
 

Kbish828

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Snapchat is an app for your phone and a form of social media. It allows you to take a picture and send it to somebody or a group of people. The reciever then has a set amount of time to view the pic once they click on it, and then it dissappears forever.

You can also add text and draw on the picture that is being sent.
 

gravityeyelids

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I have a bit of experience with this so let me elaborate. I am in college and EVERY girl has snapchat. What snapchat is is an application where you add your friends' usernames, which allows you to send either a stilll picture or short video. You can designate how long this image is viewable to them. For example, if you set it to 6 seconds, they can only view it for 6 secs before it disappears forever. Videos i believe can be up to 10 seconds long. You can write a short text that appears across the picture or video. For example "this is my new dog buddy", with a pic of your new dog buddy. You choose which of your contacts to send this snap to. It can be one girl or 30 people that you select.

The catch to this is that while the snaps dissapear, you can "screenshot" them and save them to your phone. HOWEVER, this alerts the person that you have screenshotted them

Some DJ Tips for Snapchat:

1) Story - There is what is called a Story. When you take a snap, you have the option to post it to your Story, which is almost like a feed. Any of your friends can view the snaps on your story, but your story is cleared after 24 hours. This can be useful to build social proofs. Take videos of yourself at cool parties or clubs, or surrounded by your friends having a good time, and post them to your story so girls know you are social and well liked.

2) Nudies - the obvious implication is that this is a great app for nudes. AND IT IS. Girls are suprisingly open to sending nudes over this. Its a great app for flirting, and girls feel more "safe" because the snap disappears after a few seconds. However they usually make it clear that they want "no screenshot". You can even send short dirty videos...what's not to like?

3) They know when you open it - Similar to Kik or Facebook chat, they can see when you've opened a snap that they sent to you. Use this to your advantage and don't open them right away. A general rule is wait as long as it took for her to open your last snap to her before opening hers (or longer). The same goes for how long you reply.

4) Content of your snaps - Be careful not to send stupid snaps of you sitting around bored saying stuff like "boring day today" with a picture of you watching TV or whatever. People do this and it's lame. Similar to facebook status updates, avoid snaps where you seem bored or complaining. The occasional "bored in class, entertain me" snap is OKAY because you have to be there. Pay attention to the lighting of your shots and obviously take snaps that make you look attractive. Send snaps of you doing exciting things, traveling, partying, etc. Food snaps should be avoided in general, HOWEVER, if you are a great cook, and your dishes look really good, it's not a bad idea to post pics of that. This prob sounds weird to people but i'd say literally 50% of everyone's snapchats involve the food they're eating. It's just a thing, deal with it.

5) Personal vs Mass - There are two kinds of snaps: those that you send to a whole bunch of people that are very obviously mass snaps, such as "look at this view at the grand canyon", and more personal ones like "hey sarah, guess what?". Use impersonal ones to build social proof, and personal ones to build attraction. IN ADDITION, i normally dont reply when a girl sends me an impersonal one. She's likely fishing for guys' attention and im not gonna play into that. However, if she sends me a personal one, i'll send a personal one back (or even push for sexual stuff)

Much of the same principles that apply to text game apply here. Be mysterious. Send open ended snaps like "guess what?", stuff that makes her reply. I came up with a game where i make her pic a number 1, 2, or 3 and then send a picture of me either fully clothed, in my undies, or nude (avoid this if you're out of shape). Stuff like that. Make it fun. Don't send her the usual snaps that every guy does.
 

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I used it with the most recent Tinder girl I banged. I might as well have told her I was a child rapist the way she acted when I told her I don't have Snapchat, Twitter, Instagram, and barely use facebook.

It was interesting when she was sending me nudes and ****. But when she started sending me pics of her nieces, some art she did, cookies she baked, what her bar looks like, etc. I just stopped replying to those. She got the hint and now only sends me provocative stuff (which i don't even care about because i've already banged her).

The only stuff I send back to her are body pics and jokes.


PS: Alpha and Beta are abstract. The only things that matter are things that get you the results you're going after.
 

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Slightly surprised people still use SnapChat after all the news about how unsafe it is. For what its worth, on Android devices, snaps (SnapChat messages) aren't actually deleted from the device. Instead they are hidden from view.

This is pretty much the worst software from a security standpoint. What's more is any rooted phone can screenshot snaps without alerting the sender. On top of all of this, the app has been hacked more times than we can count. Not too much you can do with the SnapChat's database luckily.

I guess these aren't major issues for most people. :/
 

gravityeyelids

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Eph said:
Slightly surprised people still use SnapChat after all the news about how unsafe it is. For what its worth, on Android devices, snaps (SnapChat messages) aren't actually deleted from the device. Instead they are hidden from view.

This is pretty much the worst software from a security standpoint. What's more is any rooted phone can screenshot snaps without alerting the sender. On top of all of this, the app has been hacked more times than we can count. Not too much you can do with the SnapChat's database luckily.

I guess these aren't major issues for most people. :/

If hackers really want the pictures of my wiener and the chinese food i make for dinner, they can have em
 
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