"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Snagging the Childhood Sweetheart

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I'm 30. Have a good career (doctorate level). Generally have my **** together. My game isn't amazing, but it's not shabby. I've tended to do long term monogamy with furious waves of hookups between. So, here's my question.

When I was 4, I had two girlfriends. The prettier one was a knockout as kids. I friended her out of the blue (we hadn't talked since kids) on Facebook recently. She is cute, not hot. Turns out, she got engaged a couple months ago to a beta schlub (you can tell by the guys pictures, career info, friends etc.) I'm much HV than this dude in regards to looks, career everything else. (Also, it looks like he's fat and has nasty teeth. I am in much better physical shape.)

I want this girl. I have no idea how to institute this type of a large scale heist, though. I don't know if I just start spitting out game at the risk of offending her. Or if I talk to her in a friendly manner and sweep her off her feet.

Any ideas/tips/suggestions on how you'd open up something like that? I kind of want the hook up by itself, but I'm also partially into it to see if I can get her to go ltr and end up with me rather than some beta chump.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Your wasting your time, you haven't talked to her in years, you might not even like each other now. Just because her fiance isn't an attractive dude doesn't mean he doesn't have great game. There are 3.5 billion women on the planet, find one that isn't engaged.
 
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Willard said:
Your wasting your time, you haven't talked to her in years, you might not even like each other now. Just because her fiance isn't an attractive dude doesn't mean he doesn't have great game. There are 3.5 billion women on the planet, find one that isn't engaged.
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Right on!

Why ruin someone else situation?

It would be one thing if she wasn't happy or has been trying give you indications of wanting to get together with you is one thing. But to go out of your way to pine for someone soon to be wife seems to be desperate.

I would befriend your old classmate and her soon to be husband and then work on their social circle for their single friends.
 
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