"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SMV during pandemic

lostintime

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Something I've noticed recently..if you're a single guy w/ a job right now living on your own you should be noticing an uptick in female attention. I certainly have. And it's super random stuff too. I'll get it just driving through my neighborhood when I'm stopped at a red light or when I'm pumping gas.

Anyone else notice this?

My point is if you're a guy on this forum who doesn't feel good about himself in regards to women/dating BUT you have your own place and job..you need to ease up on yourself. Those two things alone would put you in the top 20% right now. Seriously.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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user43770

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I've noticed just the opposite.

My success on OLD is worse than ever, and wearing a mask hides my handsome features.
 
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user43770

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I told another poster this via PM, but I'm pretty sure the pandemic funneled many more men into a market that was already heavily skewed in favor of women.

Since this sh1t started, I get basically the same amount of interest I always did, but none of them follow through.

I have no other explanation.
 

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Around my area, women are getting super flirty with random dudes they encounter, but from what I understand they're lashing out and being argumentative with their husbands and boyfriends at home. That's what all my colleagues, friends, family and coworkers have been telling me.

I don't know if having a job and having your own place is a factor, because these women know nothing about myself or these guys they're approaching, but they're going out of their way to be flirtatious.

But as a caveat, just because they're flirting doesn't necessarily mean they want to jump in bed right away.

I suspect it might just be a case of cabin fever since nightlife is non-existent and they just want to feel the power trip they derive by giving guys false hope......
 
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I suspect it might just be a case of cabin fever since nightlife is non-existent and they just want to feel the power trip they derive by giving guys false hope......
They're having c0ck-tease withdrawals
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Around my area, women are getting super flirty with random dudes they encounter, but from what I understand they're lashing out and being argumentative with their husbands and boyfriends at home. That's what all my colleagues, friends, family and coworkers have been telling me.

I don't know if having a job and having your own place is a factor, because these women know nothing about myself or these guys they're approaching, but they're going out of their way to be flirtatious.

But as a caveat, just because they're flirting doesn't necessarily mean they want to jump in bed right away.

I suspect it might just be a case of cabin fever since nightlife is non-existent and they just want to feel the power trip they derive by giving guys false hope......
Yeah you could be right
 
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