"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Smoothies and taking Whey Before Cardio

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Two quick questions...

I thought I was doing something GOOD by having a Jamba Juice smoothie every other day or so, since I'd be getting my daily requirements of fruit. However, since I'm cutting right now I checked the nutrition facts and I saw that they had upwards of 60g of sugar and 80g of carbs! Negligible calories. I mean, I know fruits have a lot of sugar and carbs, but that's crazy. Should I stop drinking these altogether or is that a "good" sort of sugar and carbs?

And the other one is, I do cardio right after weight training. Usually I'll have 2 scoops of whey and a sports drink right after the weights, but if I drink all that liquid right before I run I'll get cramps hardcore. Is it ok to wait an extra 20-30 minutes after the cardio to drink my stuff or should I drink half or what? A bit confused here.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I-tallionStallion

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1. Replace it by having just fruit without the smoothie, or have a much smaller serving of the jamba juice

2. In your case your probably better off waiting til after you run . Personally I'd rather drink the whey and then walk for a certain amount of time then run.

THe cardio issue is much debated so really its up to you, but I've read that doing high intense running after a workout is not good for muscle growth at all and can ruin your workout. Maybe someone with more experience can chime in here to help you with your decision.
 

Mavrick

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It's best to do cardio when you wake up in the morning. You're more prone to burn fat after a night of fasting. Just drink some water and go do cardio. Also, you should wait at least an hour after you've done cardio so that your body will burn fat as apposed to your intake.
 

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Fruit juice is loaded with sugar. I avoid it when trying to cut fat. Fruit itself is not so bad, but juice is just concentrated sugar. In fruit like oranges, the anti-cancer flavanoids are mostly in the pulp anyway.
 

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Wait I thought you should eat before you do cardio or work out in the morning...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Quiksilver

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It depends what your goals are Jon...

If your goals are to shed fat, then eating before cardio or workouts is probably a bad idea. The logic behind it is you want your body to use bodyfat to fuel your exercise. If you eat right before, guess what your body is going to use for energy?

On the other hand, if your goal is performance then by all means eat before exercise because you want your body to have all the energy it can get for pushing yourself that extra little bit.
 

j0n024

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I never knew that, I thought that if you DIDNT eat before you worked out then your body would try to hold onto the fat and you would not lose as much fat as opposed to eating a little bit before working out. I DO eat before I work out but I only eat cereal (NEVER anything huge) so I think that's a good compromise.
 

I-tallionStallion

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Ok, thanks for the responses. However I still don't know if it's a good idea to be eating those smoothies though. I'll do cardio in the morning from now on, which solves the fullness/cramps issue, but are the carbs and sugar in the smoothies GOOD sugar and carbs...or should I just cut out them out and just stick with a can of mixed fruit it extra light syrup to get my daily req's?
 

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The carbs in retail smoothies are bad. Those things are loaded with syrups, corn starch, and well... sugar.

Best to make your own. Buy a good blender, put ice in it, put your choice of fruits in it, add an ounce of half & half cream/milk, and you've got yourself a true shake. You know what's in it, and it's all relatively healthy. The sugars in fruit are STILL sugars, but at least you know what's in it, and there are no added sugars or garbage.

Good fruits for smoothies are:

bananas, apples, oranges, mixed berries.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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martinM.

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I agree with Quicksilver. I really wouldn't trust the retail smoothies, making your own is great advice. It's a good and convienent way of getting your daily recomended servings of fruit.

This may not be for everyone, but i sometimes use half an avacado instead of the banana as a thickener.
 
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