"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Smoother When Tired?

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I guess this is very illogical, but I feel much smoother/relaxed when I'm tired. It's like when I'm energized and not tired, my anxiety/nervousness is through the roof. Let me explain...

For a while, I wasn't masturbating and sleeping 7-8hrs per night. Energy felt so-so. I was actually fatigued more often. I felt nervous as heck around girls and couldn't get turned on.

Then, last Friday I started sleeping less. I masturbated several times in a day. I got so much smoother around chicks. Just talking to everyone. And then this past weekend I slept a total of 3hrs. Kept myself going with energy drinks. But today I felt sooo relaxed around girls. I was just the shiznit. It was like being high.

The only side-effects are going to the bathroom a lot and having a short attention span. Otherwise, my conversations are 10x better, I smile more easily, and I just don't give a ****.

Anyone else feel smoother when tired? I wish there was something I could take to give me this feeling without having to deprive myself of sleep...

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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did you get laid at either times though? No you were still masturbating.. funny ass thread dude.
 

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lol this is actually common.

sleep deprivation is almost the same thing as being drunk, your brain is slowing down.

lol I have a theory that's why stupid people never get anxious.

There's lots you can take to feel like that, lol. Not recomended.
 

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thats a good point Bvbidd

and when your mind is that slowed down, and craving sleep, sex really isnt in the foreground
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Bvbidd said:
lol this is actually common.

sleep deprivation is almost the same thing as being drunk, your brain is slowing down.

lol I have a theory that's why stupid people never get anxious.

There's lots you can take to feel like that, lol. Not recomended.
This is so true!!!
I went through half a school year where I pulled 18 to 24 hour days every day. This severe lack of sleep put me in the most carefree state and I litteraly oozed a sexual firtiness. I even got a female prof. to blush and flirt with me during lectures.


One day i skipped school and went out in town to sarge. It was there I realized that my game was the exact same as when I am buzzed and feeling it.
 

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Teflon_Mcgee said:
This is so true!!!
I went through half a school year where I pulled 18 to 24 hour days every day. This severe lack of sleep put me in the most carefree state and I litteraly oozed a sexual firtiness. I even got a female prof. to blush and flirt with me during lectures.

One day i skipped school and went out in town to sarge. It was there I realized that my game was the exact same as when I am buzzed and feeling it.
I've had very similar experiences...

I also agree with this very much so...
Bvbidd said:
lol this is actually common.

sleep deprivation is almost the same thing as being drunk, your brain is slowing down.

lol I have a theory that's why stupid people never get anxious.
Actually, I have a feeling that even though I'm not as tired today as I was before, I am still a lot more in the zone.

I did some research and went and bought 2 things: Passion flower extract (in capsule form), and Skullcaps (in capsule form). Passion flower seems to make me sleepy, whereas the Skullcaps don't make me sleepy but do get me relaxed it seems.

Anyway, yeah, I'm still not getting laid, but I do get hit on a lot, it's just a matter of me being comfortable and smooth when it happens. If I'm nervous as hell it doesn't help.

Thanks for the replies guys. I think I'm going to try to see how Skullcaps work out this next month...
 
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It's the opposite for me. I'm laid back as it is so when I'm tired I'm basically off the map. I prefer the high energy vibe more for myself personally.
 

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Meditation!
... thats what your looking for.

Might take awhile for you to integrate the issues that are causing such anxiety/nervousness. But... trust me Ace, it will unfold the world of relaxed seductive power your looking for. Comftorably melting in Don Juan suave abundance. Good thing about it too is... your totally relaxed, but your full of energy. Your body/mind becomes more integrated to channel the higher levels of energy (that is currently repressed in you, thats causing your anxiousness). Thus... you just smooth buddha ooze, with that devilish smile that no chick can refuse.

lol... everyone will wonder what you know that they don't.
Like moths to a flame, playa'

BigUps2Buddha, :D
Peace'
 
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