'Smooth' ways of askin a girl for a dance

[sonick182]

Okay, so my Prom is in a couple days, and this time I really wanna strut my stuff in school (i never really DJ in school).

Im plannin on askin a bunch of girls to dance, but I want someting more original than
"wanna dance?"

the only other one i got is
"can i have this dance?" in a joking lighthearted kind of way with a grin on my face.

I need some ways that are funny, C+F, the works yaknow

I know im sounding horribly AFC, but yeah, its the last HS dance of my life...

Thanks

 

[bust.it]

C+F isn't just lines: BE the C+F. Smile with it, wear it, radiate it... YOU are the man.

One of the best dance approaches I've used isn't really an approach at all:

make EC, move in with a sly grin (like, "i want to rip your clothes off" grin), then extend your hand. If she has half a brain and is interested, she'll take it. Then LEAD her onto the dance floor and take it from there.

No words needed

 

[drixsa]

yea i have to agree words can be used but arent really needed

i just had my dance and what i did was look for some friends (girls) that were sittin down for the moment

just went up to them and said "hey, you cant be sittin here, lets go" (and nod to the dance floor)

take them to the center of the busy crowd and just bust some moves.

dont worry so much

and why arent u DJ'ing in school??

best place to prove you are who u wanna be

 

[El brujo]

And what if a really ugly nerdy girl asks you to dance??? Would you guys dance with her (to accomplish some sort of goal) or if you wouldn't, how would you do it?

Grtz

 

[JoE BoXeR]

Ugh yes when the ugly girl asks you to dance...

I'd say if it's senior prom, say yes. Worst comes to worst you gotta put your hands on her waist for 4 minutes during a slow song in the dark. Also people will notice and think that it was a really honorable and "great" thing that you did. Nobody will think you're desperate for dancing with them, only shallow if you blow them off. Besides, making any girl cry or angry on prom night could have some repercussions.

On the other hand if you really don't want to dance with them, then tell them you're looking for your date, going out to get some fresh air, trying to find a bathroom or whatever but say it genuinely and she probably will move on and won't ask again.

And ya for asking other girls just walk up smile, make some eye contact and say "Shall we?" or "Hey I like this song, wanna dance?"

Actually now that I think about it, in the true spirit of a Don Juan, tell them, don't ask them to dance. Use a line like "Hey it would be cool if we went and danced to this song" or "Why don't you come and dance with me," Give her the silent pause if she hasn't said anything yet or throw in "just say yes".

If she for some reason turns you down then she's probably a ***** (or has a boyfriend in the vicinity) and don't ask again.

 

[El brujo]

Ok thanks for the advice Joe, I had something like that in mind but I hate it to dance with someone that hangs around your neck and tries to seduce you with the weirdest techniques. It gives me te creaps

grtz

 

[REDblueOI]

UG!

I refuse to dance with ugly girls. PPl think I'm an *******, SURPRISE, I am. Lol, in all seriousness, any guy who's got balls and is half a natural DJ will understand. Girls my say "he's shallow" but trust me, if you are slow dancing with a really sexy girl in TIGHT jeans they are gonna get jealous and want you a lot more than if your dancing with an UG and they're saying "AWWW!"

 

[DJ Girevik]

Oh, for frick's sake Joe, just say no if you don't want to dance with her. So you're seen as shallow, is that any different from 90% of the rest of the high schoolers? If it's honorable and great to lead an ugly chick who likes me on, than call me dishonorable. It's SENIOR FRIGGIN PROM, you're only going to be in HS for a few weeks afterwards.

 

[JoE BoXeR]

well f*ck obviously dude, I'm just giving the guy a couple of options. If he doesn't want to dance with an ugly chick then don't. Simple as that. Hell you don't even need an excuse but it's really tacky if you don't have anything in mind when a girl walks up to you and you stutter out "ya ummm...well....sure i guess..." or "actually I uhhh... am uhhhh.. looking for someone else but ya thanks for asking!"

A true DJ won't care who notices or what is said and he won't take any ego boost from rejecting her nor will he feel like some sort of saint for letting her dance with him.

REDblueOI had an excellent point when he referred to the jealousy factor but you can look at that on a different level and think about how much confidence it shows to be seen dancing with an ugly girl and not giving a f*ck who notices.

If you don't want to have anything to do with her, then cooly say no thanks with out humiliating her. If you do decide to suck it up and dance a song with her (you're offering her one dance, not several. You've just done her the favor of your company now get the hell out of there) then don't get all red in the face and act like you wish you could just disappear. Don't lose the DJ attitude.

You can do one or the other it's really up to you and how you're feeling, but which ever way you decide, execute with confidence and poise and you'll be fine.