This post is quite old, but its important:
I dont believe that being a big bulking macho guy is very important for being a DJ....sure, some hot girls like that...some dont. I am in good shape but in no way some big musclehead...even if I wanted to be, I couldnt due to my incredibly busy schedule. However, I have totally seduced girls who are always seen with oxish guys. A few of them have become regular **** buddies. And my current girlfriend got a 9.7 on hotornot....although any moron could tell you how hot she is.
What made them attracted to me?
Intelligence and charm
Sure, being a hulk can get you a girls attention......see, the thing about going to the gym and getting huge is that it takes a lot of time; more time than having a professional career will allow. Additionally, going out into the field without looking like a wrestler makes you hone your skills so much faster, since you cant just depend on being huge.
But yes, if you are charming and intelligent, you can break any barrier with any girl....My standards are high, and are always met: girls that look like movie stars and supermodels. So, before you decide to devote hours of your valuable time to lifting heavy things, think about going to law school or something....its better in the long run.