"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Smoking...bad or good for women?

thedarkpassenger

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Please, no DONT SMOKE, IT'S TERRIBLE comments. I just am wondering if anyone has experience with this? Does smoking (not in an addictive way, but in more of a bad-ass way) work with women, or does it actually repel women?

I'm not a smoker, but just a casual smoker when drinking. Anyone have any experience with this?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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buffalobill

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I think it depends a lot on the woman... Smoking has historically always been seen as sexy. But a lot of girls nowadays find it really disgusting for men to smoke. If you're going to be kissing her later on, it will make your mouth taste like a cigarette.
 

Gangster Of Love

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Smoking is bad, if you want to go for women that are not smokers. To them, smoking is gross, disgusting, etc.

If you are going for underage girls who can't buy cigarrettes, then it actually might be seen as "cool", otherwise I would avoid it.

A woman who smokes might be from indiferent, to actually looking at it as a good thing, since not everyone understands her being a smoker.

And no, there is nothing "sexy" about kissing someone with a cigarrete & mouthwash taste.
 

Ridingthelightning

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1. Women that smoke will date/bang whomever.
2. Women who are opposed to smoking will most likely not date but maybe bang men who do smoke.

I've started conversations because of smoking. I had a good rapport with a 32yr old (I'm 24) two nights ago that all started because I bummed a smoke from her.
 

zekko

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I used to smoke, I quit many years ago.
But I agree if the girl smokes, it might actually help. Smoking can be a very social thing. There's nothing like sharing a cigarette with someone (I mean each smoking their own, not literally sharing one cigarette).
Goes well with drinking too, if you're into that scene.

If she doesn't smoke, she will most likely find it disgusting.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Byezbozhniy

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I started smoking about 7 months ago. I've never been turned down for smoking and have picked up a few girls 'through' smoking.

Some girls don't like it so I don't smoke before I meet them, or when I'm with them, if I'm going to be kissing them.

I would absolutely not recommend anyone to start smoking as a way of meeting girls though.
 

arutha

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Non-smkoers hate the smell of smoke, and even in a relationship if one person starts smoking it can put a big strain on the relationship and possibly contribute to it ending, it is a revolting smell if you aren't used to it. Smoking being 'cool' went out years ago, now you either do it or you don't.
 
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