"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Smith's philosophy on "looking good"

tsmith2334

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I think being an attractive male far outweighs any small disadvantage that comes with the territory .

Think about the leverage you'd give to an HB9 or 10 as opposed to a 6... more time, more effort, more willing to put up with crap, basically you become more devoted to making things work... be it a hook-up or LTR.

Anyone who can't imagine women feeling they exact same way are not really using their brains...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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apocalypse later

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I just can't believe people actually find the need to whine about looking good, or how people explain that certain good traits can somehow have that negative of an impact.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Looks only go so far...
 

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Why are you people so damn obsessed with looks? Are you that vain or insecure?

Donald Trump is a helluva successful guy and it looks like a squirrel died on his head...what about Lemmy, from Motorhead? He's got huge warts on his face and has been with at least 2000 chicks...And Charlie Sheen just looks like a regular guy...

Actions speak louder than words, passing glances, or mega-hold hair gel. Whether you're good looking or not, you can't sit on your ass all day and get further in life.
 

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I go by the old adage "do the best with what you have." This coupled with a confident mindset in all social settings are a great way to get women attracted.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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LostAndConfused

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Looks, Social Value, and Confidence

the pyramid to knocking the best women. IMHO, this pyramid is more important than ANY other aspect of the game.

Looks can get you far.........

.....as long as you take risks.
 

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Most guys rate a girl based about 80-90% on her looks.

Girls base their opinions on another of other factors that guys mostly ignore:
- how confident the guy is
- how well he converses
- how many friends he has
- how well she likes his friends
- how well her friends like him
- what kind of shoes he wears
- how much money he has
- whether they have any commonalities that might form a relationship (some real horish girls will overlook this, obviously)

I could go on, but you get the point. Remember that percentages can only add up to 100%. So logically, a girl MUST value looks less than a man does. And in my experience, looks don't seem to make much difference.

Stop making looks threads.
 

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MooseGod said:
Why are you people so damn obsessed with looks? Are you that vain or insecure?

Actions speak louder than words, passing glances, or mega-hold hair gel. Whether you're good looking or not, you can't sit on your ass all day and get further in life.
We are so obsessed with looks because if we are good looking, we don't have to work hard to get sex from a girl. TV, cell phone, internet, blackberries, iphone = Instant Gratification society. Who the hell wants to work for sex or money? Just give it to me because I'm entitled and you should pity me.

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