"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Smiley faces and sad faces in texts

MANG

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I like using smiley faces and sad faces in texts. Is it homo though?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Rounder

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How about smiley faces person to person instead?

Most people here agree that use of text should be limited or not at all. I think they are ok in limited form, short and sweet but don't have an hour long conversation through them.

Smileys though? Do you think a smiley means you're getting her or you're not? The smiley isn't the difference maker - what you say and how you say it is. Use them if you want, but if you send 30 texts to her a day and they all end with smileys or frowns - you're a little odd.

Communication is so much more than words on a phone - in person you can add your own touch to the convo, your smile, your scent, kino, your laugh - body language comes across much louder than anything you say.

I say quit worrying about damn smileys.
 

Daddy The Pimp

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MANG said:
I like using smiley faces and sad faces in texts. Is it homo though?
LOL what a question :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
This is cracking me up :D


aghhhh the world is coming to an painful enddddd

EDIT: i felt the need to answer this question :( . The answer is :
IRRELEVANT . Dont overanalyze every fvcking detail of life . Just live it the way you want it and make others like it by liking it yourself . Periodddddd.
Now Daddy is on top mood to go on halloween party and get laid :D. Olleeeeeeeeeeeeeey
 

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back in grade 11, when text messages were just getting popular, my friend who has huge success with ladies said to me "B***** love the smiley face" ever since then, I believed it and use them often. Mostly to show sarcastic remarks.
 

Groovy

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Daddy The Pimp said:
LOL what a question :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
This is cracking me up :D


aghhhh the world is coming to an painful enddddd

EDIT: i felt the need to answer this question :( . The answer is :
IRRELEVANT . Dont overanalyze every fvcking detail of life . Just live it the way you want it and make others like it by liking it yourself . Periodddddd.
Now Daddy is on top mood to go on halloween party and get laid :D. Olleeeeeeeeeeeeeey
Hahhahah, THATS MY MAN MOTHER****ERS!!!

To your question: You need guidance on THIS? Cmon!! Ladies ADMIRE the ones who are BRAVE enough to step out of their comfort zones. Don't be afraid. The most you get out of your comfort zone... The more you learn!

Out of the comfort zone if only "wierd" if you think it's wierd- Usually after a copule of minutes people get it, you want ot have fun, cool guy!

You'll learn a lot, and importantly tomorrow you WON'T regret it.

Yeah! Having said that, that post also craked me up. :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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mtlwlu said:
"B***** love the smiley face"
So funny, so true. Somehow this :p or this ;) turns what you said into a witty remark.
 

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You can get away with prettymuch anything if it contains a smiley :D , winky ;) , or silly :p face
 

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The only time a text with a smiley face is homo is if you have written before it "I really enjoyed your balls boucing against my bottom tonight"

If this isnt the case there's not a need to worry!
 

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MANG said:
I like using smiley faces and sad faces in texts. Is it homo though?
Funny question, indeed. :crackup:

But, I feel the need to answer because I, too, use the following sometimes
:p ;) :) .

It's really difficult to be sarcastic on a text message. By including a :)p) you make it a little easier for her to get your witty, grade-A sarcastic, award-winning remark. By not using a little :p she might not get your joke and go all levels of ovary-rage on your ass (depending on what you write, and what kind of girl she is, of course).

I use the "text wink" and the "Smile wink" the same way I use the real wink and smile. So, when they read the few texts I send them, they can picture me doing the wink/smile.

-VdoubleR
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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