"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Smile!

B-Lemond

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SMILE!

Smile in the morning when you wake up!

Smile when you are having a bad day!

Smile before you have to give that girl a call!

Smile when you are nervous before a big party!

SMILE SMILE SMILE

As you can see this tip is a SHORT but EFFECTIVE tip!

FORCE yourself to SMILE for AT LEAST 5 minutes. Your whole attitude will change into a FUN and HAPPY state!

Now SMILE!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sexy_kuta

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duhhhh
 

librito

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smile your way to heaven............
smiling is a beatiful thing.
I always thought that I had big teeth I( and I do) unt l I said to myself.. fuuck it. if I fell like smiling and have a good time, thats what Ill do. and lo and behold, women started to tell me that I have a beautiful smile.
the only defects you have are the ones you create in your head.
 

T Money

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When I force myself to smile, it feels fake and then I convince myself that i'm not really happy, i'm just smiling because I don't want to look mad.

I have a pretty stoic look, even though i'm in a good mood. I look very serious. So when I force myself to smile, I really have to work at it.

I can be happy as hell, and it will look like i'm pissed.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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T Money said:
When I force myself to smile, it feels fake and then I convince myself that i'm not really happy, i'm just smiling because I don't want to look mad.

I have a pretty stoic look, even though i'm in a good mood. I look very serious. So when I force myself to smile, I really have to work at it.

I can be happy as hell, and it will look like i'm pissed.
i have that too haha. when i breath through my mouth it seems like im smiling. and when i do have a real smile it dont feel right. people often think im mad or going to kick someones ass when my mouth is shut. that look turns away chicks:(
 

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well...

what helped me turn my frown into a smile was practice! my mouth was naturally downturned so it took a little work for me, But what I did was goto the mall and walk arround with a massive smile on my face. It probably looked i was a lunatic or something, but now a smaller smile sticks to my face alot easier than it did before.
 
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