Smile vs Smirk when approaching??

[latinnova]

Ok, so I know everyone says to smile, and this is to look friendly and warm so that women will let down their guard when one approaches them. However, if I am passing a girl and smile at her I'm not going to throw a full on, full tooth smile from out of the blue, it just looks odd and creepy. With my personality, when I use a full on smile it has to be from the heart and with something that really makes me smile. So if I am talking with the girl and we are cracking some jokes then I will pull out that full on, teeth showing smile because it's natural. I know some people can pull this off looking natural, but not many

So what I do, when walking by a lady and I see them glance at me, I will give them a grin, something like a George Clooney smirk. I have had ladies tell me they love my smirk, and it's much more low key but just as friendly. It just doesn't seem as extreme and there is nothing that they did that made me blast out the all teeth baring smile. To me that would be strange if someone did that to me as I passed them by, really creepy like, lol.

I just wanted to see what most of you guys are doing if you catch a girl staring at you anywhere, the club, restaurant, bar, park, etc.. You guys aren't pulling out the full on teeth showing smiles until you are actually laughing with them in full blown conversation, right? Because that just seems odd as hell

 

[JohnChops]

smile and she will smile back. say hi and have her make you breakfast in the morning.

 

[apprenticedj]

I keep my eyes open for any ladies that are giving me repeated looks. I lock eye contact and give a smile (similiar to your "smirk"), if it's returned there's my invitation to approach.

Big full toothed smile or small Clooney smirk, doesn't matter. If she's feeling you she's feeling you, can't really do anything wrong.

 

[Skyline]

Ok, so I know everyone says to smile, and this is to look friendly and warm so that women will let down their guard when one approaches them. However, if I am passing a girl and smile at her I'm not going to throw a full on, full tooth smile from out of the blue, it just looks odd and creepy. With my personality, when I use a full on smile it has to be from the heart and with something that really makes me smile. So if I am talking with the girl and we are cracking some jokes then I will pull out that full on, teeth showing smile because it's natural. I know some people can pull this off looking natural, but not many

So what I do, when walking by a lady and I see them glance at me, I will give them a grin, something like a George Clooney smirk. I have had ladies tell me they love my smirk, and it's much more low key but just as friendly. It just doesn't seem as extreme and there is nothing that they did that made me blast out the all teeth baring smile. To me that would be strange if someone did that to me as I passed them by, really creepy like, lol.

I just wanted to see what most of you guys are doing if you catch a girl staring at you anywhere, the club, restaurant, bar, park, etc.. You guys aren't pulling out the full on teeth showing smiles until you are actually laughing with them in full blown conversation, right? Because that just seems odd as hell

When I lock eyes with a girl, I full on teeth smile. Why? Because its a genuine smile. That smile you do with just your lips is completely fake and weak, in my opinion. You smile with your whole face which includes eyes, mouth, teeth, cheeks, and forehead. A real smile is when you laugh, which causes you to smile with your whole face. Most girls I smile at will look down and smile back, I consider this is a good sign. Some look at me directly and full on smile back, these girls are usually the more confident and outgoing ones. I'm generally already smirking when I walk around and stuff so it wouldn't make a difference if I smirked at them.

So eye contact, genuine smile, she smiles back, then I approach with my normal face- the smirk. And think about it, how many guys/girls give off a genuine smile like that? Not that fake, no teeth, lip-only, expressionless one. Because I know close to no one who does! And the guys that I know whom are weak and or needy don't give off that type of smile, they smile with just their mouth. Nothing else.

Another thing, nothing is creepy or odd unless you think it is.

 

[GS750]

Smirk. It's ****y. But do whatever works for you.

 

[mangotot]

Deliver the biggest smile possible and say 'Here I am baby!'. Deliver with a really positive energy and it will go down really well.