"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

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Smelling good,like a girl

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Ok,heres the deal.A friend and i were rideing around during lunch break last thrusday,and hes g/f and her friend hopped in the truck and rode with us.Her friend was wearing some (great smelling)perfume,and was all over me,sitting on my lap and what-not:D .
Later that day,it seemed like I was getting more response for girls through the day,and just though to myself i was looking and feeling good,and it showed.But after awhile(I.E. the most popular girl in school came up and started flirting with me).So i started thinking that something wasnt right about it all,so i pulled one of my real close girl-friends off to the side in shop class,and asked her if anything was different about me and she said that i smelled just faintly of girls perfume.Enough of the story,heres my question.

If a person smells just faintly like a girl,only enough to be able to smel from real close,does that trigger some sort of sexul appale(sp?) in girls,or was that just a good day for me?
 

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dude you live in Oklahoma they're all on meth dude...they were smellin the meth on your girl friend's ass...jk..

Interesting analysis...
 

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You got it man...Ive been using this it is a small trick used in the seduction community.

Women are attracted to men who have women pursuing them. Which is often whey the married man is more attractive than the same single man.

This gives the impression that you have been with a girl...and as I said before in simpler terms: girls are interested in what other girls are interested in...period.

This is why a lot of my PUA friends from my lair...they have fake lipstick smudges on their cheeks, fake hicky temporary tatoos, and girl purfume.

~Smooth
 

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i think what it is, is that they noticed you had girl perfume, therfore you have a girl (or more than 1) in your life which drasticly ups your social value.
 

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cool,i might just try that out a little bit more,and see if i have any luck with it.And thanks for the quick input guys.

Originally posted by Dimebag_Darrell
dude you live in Oklahoma they're all on meth dude...they were smellin the meth on your girl friend's ass...jk..
Nah,that was when i lived in Missouri.you couldnt swing a cat by its tail without hitting a crack house,or a meth lab.That sucked,and is most of the reason why i moved out here with my dad and stepmom
 

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HA HA HA LOL what you said couldn't be farther from the truth man!

That one post by Smooth player and overall the thing with perfume creates a sense of urgency and curiosity in girls because although they may not approach you about it they definately will be curious who the lucky girl is..thats what I think
 

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I thought this was gonna be about wearing girl perfume to get girls. I was ready to go off, luckily for us youre no a tard.
 

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lol...well..ima try this out tomorrow....ima borrow some girls prefume and test it out....i'll post tomorrow witht the results
 

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
This is why a lot of my PUA friends from my lair...they have fake lipstick smudges on their cheeks, fake hicky temporary tatoos, and girl purfume.
Haha, that's one of the most embarassing sentences I've read lately.
 

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Being around girls and talking to them lets you become a more fun and outgoing person while attracting more women. :)
 

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
This is why a lot of my PUA friends from my lair...they have fake lipstick smudges on their cheeks, fake hicky temporary tatoos, and girl purfume.
that's one of the most pathetic things I've ever heard of.
 

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Originally posted by Porky
that's one of the most pathetic things I've ever heard of.
Haha yeah. Forget about the extremely pathetic fake hickies and lipstick smudges, it's almost just as embarassing that he has "PUA friends" and a "lair". What is this, some superhero movie or something? Get out of fantasy land.
 

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One year ago, I would have been like that **** don't work, but one time a while back after my shower I used some victoria's secret lotion that my mom uses because there wasnt any regular lotion, and the next day my dad and mom said they went into my room earlier and said it smelled nice in there and I remembered it was the lotion. Now I havent tried putting the lotion on before I went in public to see how it worked, but now that I see this thread I will have to try it.
 

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Originally posted by qweretyuiopas
the next day my dad and mom said they went into my room earlier and said it smelled nice in there
Are you trying to pick up your... parents?

This technique might work, but only on girls you've never met before. Althought it would probably give a mysterious aura to girls you know, make them think "What else is he doing that I don't know about..."

Anyways, I'll try it when I can get a free perfume sample or something. I'm not going to the store and buying perfume, never mind trying to explain that to my parents when they see it...
 

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Originally posted by TheNewGuy
Are you trying to pick up your... parents?
lol no, but idk about the perfume that may be too strong of a smell, ill wait till someone else tries that b4 i go for it
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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