"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Smart women? do you game them differently

Brad324

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I notice that I only seem to be attracted to smart women... Dumb women bore me. I think I have an advantage with smart women, since I consider myself to be pretty smart myself... (now I just need to work on this whole "funny" thing :()

The real key to getting with smart women? Be smart. Of course, this will only work if you're smart enough. It's pretty hard to fake intelligence. Have you ever been around a person who's TRYING to be smart? You can usually tell how smart someone really is just by talking to them for a few minutes. I never try to show people how smart I am, yet they always describe me as being smart. Now, don't get the wrong idea and think that I'm trying to brag about how smart I think I am... I just want you to know that intelligence is something you can't fake. It's not something that you can learn - your IQ remains the same throughout your life. If a girl is looking for a guy who's in her intelligence range, then I don't see much you could do if you plan on having a long-term relationship with her. You might be able to 'excite' her temporarily using C&F tecniques, as long as you're really smooth about it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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englishcrap

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Yup..u got that one right buddy :D

Originally posted by tmpgstx
Yeap .. the more dumb = more primitive = more sex.

If you're intelligent and want to meet an intelligent woman - STAY OUT of the computer science field! There are literally 0 girls - i mean this, and if there are some - they are not attractive.
 

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There are plenty of intelligent girls with amazing sex drives out there. The ones that usually don't are the bookworms, whom are more dedicated to academic knowledge than anthing else. If anything, an intelligent girl can be even more intimate and sexual in bed. They have a natural curiosity and desire to learn...in more ways than one.
 

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Originally posted by MackJr
Bull****. smart women are less sexual than dumb ones. Smart people get laid less than dumb ones in general, regardless of sex. The problem with intelligence is that it gets int he way of fvcking. Women have the same problem with this as men.
"Smart" doesn't necessarily mean "intellectual." Intellectual people tend to overthink sh!t and let it get in the way of a proper sex life. But this is a borderline mental disorder. Most "smart" people at a university or other school only think during class.

Personally, I think YOU (and no, this isn't an insult, I'm using you as an example) are going to have more of a problem with being "too 'smart' to get laid" more often than 90% of the women out there. So it's no excuse.
 

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More or better?

dumber = more primitive = more sex

smarter = more skillful = better sex
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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