There is this girl that I easily consider one of my best friends. We have quite a history. Last year we really liked each other up until right before summer. We were goin to start dating that summer because school was so busy I didn't want a relationship at the time. So she ended up saying the LJBF gig right before summer. We hung out and went through a lot of drama because I ended up falling for her over the summer. At the beginning of this school year I decided to put some time in between our friendship because I had had enough. I havent felt anything in about six months. But, just recently I've been starting to get feelings toward her again. I have been doing my best to pursue other girls and I haven't really found a girl that can really fulfill what we had. She likes this other guy now, but whenever we hang out she seems to have the greatest time. She easily considers me to be one of her very best friends. So my question is...Should I give her somewhat of an ultimatum? Tell her that I don't think that we should hang out now if she really likes this guy? Since she is really close to me, I think this will be hard on her, but I think its an easy way for her to really put things into perspective. We are great friends, but I think that if we were to try again at a relationship that it would really last. I have a feeling that she would miss me a lot more than she would miss this other guy. Do you guys think that this would be a very wise decision?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Smart Decision?
- Thread starter DaneB
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