Small Town Skeezers

[kody_starr]

Well, I live in a fairly small town. There is a very low percentage of hot girls around. Especially above the age of 25. Or even above the age of 21. Or 18. They're here, but they're locked up. They're all in relationships, and they seem pretty closed off to the idea of "fooling around" with other guys. Once you are in "their" social circle, things loosen up considerably, and you can get what you want, but you have to get in that social circle. And those social circles are often tight and closed.

What I've noticed, is that the few pretty girls I see around, are hooked up with what appear to be the biggest skeezers I have ever witnessed. Some of them are grossly overweight (former football players in high school?). Others are as skinny as praying mantises, with the faces of weasels and evil little Fredo moustaches. These guys don't seem like they're going anywhere. They're clearly not from well to do families, and if they live around here, it's likely they're not very ambitious.

Here's what I'm guessing.
First, these guys have been part of these girl's social circles, likely for years, if not basically their entire lives.
Second, these guys live a common lifestyle: they drink together, party together, go to local football games together.

That's basically it. These guys seem not to have the "attractive" qualities women are looking for: intelligent, good looking, fit, ambitious, pretty much nothing. It seems like all there is is a common social circle and growing up together.

There's a tremendous common homogeneity among the guys: they're equally skeezer-ish so there's no telling what's different about any one of them as opposed to the rest.

I'm baffled here guys help me out!

 

[Warrior74]

never heard of dudes being called skeezers before. We used to call ghetto hoes that.

Stop worrying about other dudes...just get your game on. If you don't want those type of chics, don't worry about it...if you do, they arent that hard to get.

 

[theunflushables]

Kody, I know how you feel man, I grew up in a small town too. Honestly, the best thing to do if you can afford it is move to a bigger city. Small towns don't have a lot to offer you at all.

 

[Julius_Seizeher]

Kody- I'm currently doing the small city deal, so I'm with you there. Plus I'm in the midwest, where the women are corn-fed and all seem to have illegitimate children. I just started a new job in a major city an hour from my house, and it is NIGHT and DAY. You can't sneeze in a major city without 10 hot chicks seeing you do it.

But more importantly, your mindset sounds fvcked. Check your headgear, you sound like a bitter hater. Work to be one of the hated, it is an awesome power and privelege. Everyone pities the weak, but jealousy must be earned.

 

[PappyS]

The women are dating these guys because their social group tells them to. If a woman's social group told her that an AIDS infected midget with down's syndrome was hot, she'd date him.

That's how women choose partners- based on what society tells them. Men are more likely to just follow their genitals. Women's choice of partners means very little. There's no reason to feel special if a girl wants to sleep with you. There is no need to feel upset if she doesn't.

 

[FutureSpartan]

The women are dating these guys because their social group tells them to. If a woman's social group told her that an AIDS infected midget with down's syndrome was hot, she'd date him.

That's how women choose partners- based on what society tells them. Men are more likely to just follow their genitals. Women's choice of partners means very little. There's no reason to feel special if a girl wants to sleep with you. There is no need to feel upset if she doesn't.

x2

I see it all the time also. Its the power of familiarity and pre-selection. Women will sacrifice their standards in guys as long as he's in her social circle.

Its like women going nuts for average looking/ugly celebrities, on a smaller scale.

 

[kody_starr]

Yeah, that's pretty much what I figured. These guys must have had some sort of social status back in h.s. or something: sports, or access to drugs, something.

Like I said, it's very odd why the prettier girls would pick one of the skeezer guys over any other. They seem not to have any differentiating characteristics: they look the same, dress the same, same lack of ambition.

It's like watching that penguin movie. How the f do the penguins get attracted to one penguin over any other? They look exactly alike!

Anyway, I'm just doing some kj-ing, but I suppose it gives you some indication that pickup is meant for big cities and social circles are more prevalent in small ones.