"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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HollowHorizon

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Heres Somthing Short That Happend To me In A Convo

HollOW HoRiZon (4:11:30 PM): Being sad is not
HER :::::: why
HollOW HoRiZon (4:11:48 PM): Why not
HER :::::: Because
HollOW HoRiZon (4:12:47 PM): Mmmmm, Who dosent wanna be happy
HER :::::: Because
HollOW HoRiZon (4:13:03 PM): whats b/c
HollOW HoRiZon (4:13:05 PM): Because?
HER ::::::i want to be
HollOW HoRiZon (4:14:11 PM): You feeling ok? Umm wanting to be sad is not very Normal, U need help
HER :::::: NO ( She Smiles)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Very Short Conversation But Maybe I Had A Hint Of A Smile Within Her? Maybe A Tit Bit Of Relif? Just a decimal dot of progress???? Somthing>?? What you think
 
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I think you may be seeing things that arent there dude, if you like this girl ask her out.
 
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Haha wtf you said like 3 lines.

We can't really gauge anything considering half the conversation is nonsensical XD
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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wtf?
 
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Flabbergasped? said:
Haha wtf you said like 3 lines.

We can't really gauge anything considering half the conversation is nonsensical XD
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I guess I can't read because I got nothing out of that. Also I don't know your full confo but to me you come off as soft and needy which equals a great friend but nothing more.
 
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omigod, i didnt understand a word of that.
how are we suppose to translate it?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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