"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Damn Im having some trouble. Theres this chick I like, she works at this grocery store by my house. She is very hot to me. The thing is im not afraid of smiling or anything. but every time I see her I try smiling at her. most of the times she will not look at me. or some other times when she does see me I look at her with a smile and she hurries and looks away. what the hell is wrong. should I just say screw it or what? help me please

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Rex Man

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you reek of pu$$y, and not in the good way.

Grab those balls and FIND OUT if she likes you or not.
(maybe you should buy some magnums for social proof :rolleyes:
 

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just ask for the time and start a small talk.

good luck man
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She may be just shy to hold the gaze. If she keeps looking at you more than once, shes interested, or your really interesting to look at, and not in a good way
 

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Welcome to the forum. This issue and many others like it are covered in both the DJ Bible and on the forum. I'd highly recommend you check it out. Thanks much.
 
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