"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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deeloo

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i have a small head and an above average length neck.. which appears to be really long since my head is small.. my body frame is pretty small but since i have a small head i dont look that scrawny.. but i look really small.. even though im 5"8 (im asian so that's an ok height) i look small next to ppl who r 5"6 (not height wise of course).. and when i stand alone ppl automatically think im short until they compare themselves with me.. my head and my body prolly goes in the ratio 1:10 or 1:11.. which is pretty bad.. ive started working out.. but im just wondering.. is there a way to make myself look better? r there specific muscle groups that can help it? and if i bulk up would it look even weirder cuz my head looks smaller compared to my body.. also i wear collared shirt a lot so my neck will look shorter.. but then is there some other way to make me look good? thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bishop04

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Pretty much, you're given what you're given. I'd be happy to trade some of my head size with you, as mine's a bit egg-shaped. Hasn't stopped me from getting anything I wanted, though.

As for what clothes to wear, I'd recommend you go to Abercrombie and get a few collared polo's - the new look that A&F is bringing back is popped collars - instead of folding them over, they stand straight up. The new polo's they're selling are stiff enough to allow this. This will make it look as though your neck isn't as long (it'll take a good 3 inches off). Hope this helps.
 

California Love

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Deeloo, your situation should be the complete opposite.


People with smaller heads-

-look taller
-look bigger


If you think about it, this makes sense. A smaller head would make the body look proportionally bigger.


On the contrary, think big head with huge afro. Does the body look big or small now?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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