"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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defiancy

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Saturday night I went to the winter formal dance that was held in my school. I went alone with my friends without a date since I figured that would be more fun. For the night, I went around dancing with multiple girls and hanging around with my friends.
There was one ugly girl that checked me out because i was disgusted....I ignored her aha. Now probably 30 minutes before the dance ends, I see a HB 7 girl that has liked me in the past (yea i never did take advantage of that fact earlier). She is with my group of friends sitting on a small stone block, which is somewhat a makeshift seat. As friends, they just talk while I just sit back and relax.

Nearly everytime my eyes are on that girl she fixes her hair. She is sitting down. Now my friends were beginning to stand up to go onto the dance floor. Soooo I just get up, gesture at her to come towards me and I persuade her to dance with me. I put my arm around her and pull her in with me and my friends.

what sucks is that the music was only slow dance rather than techno (what i like), so we were really close to each other. during that short time though, she made eye contact couple time at point blank range lol

yea after the song was over...she hurried away since she was part of the "clean up crew" who decorated the dance. It was disappointing that I didn't get her number. But I'll see her again and close it
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Flabbergasped?

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Good stuff. Maybe she was fixing her hair because she wanted you to see her looking pretty?

Either way, it looks like it went decently. A #close would have been easy though.
 

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what sucks is that the music was only slow dance rather than techno (what i like)
what a contradicting sentence lol

very alpha moves in being able to signal for her to come to you, but yeah you shoulda closed the deal, get a contact
 
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