I just want to start off that I have been a huge fan of this website and have combed through the dj bible many a time. It has really helped to improve my game and my self respect. I have gone from a emotional wimp to a decisive He-man.
Anyways, I go to a small liberal arts college in a small town and needless to say, there are not too many women here above a 4 quality. However there are a handful of girls that are 6-7 and a few that are 8-9. These girls upon arriving on campus are overwhelmed by the amount of guys pursuing them and immediately assume the role of a *****y girl who wants guys to do every thing for them and want all the attention all the time. Blah, blah, blah.... you have probably heard about this a million times.
So as I forementioned, I have been using the techniques in the dj bible as best I can by going out and meeting new girls (all the way from 1's to the 9s), improving my appearance, and solidifing my personality and manhood. So the girls should be flocking to me, Right? Not use a cliche, but wrong. The women just seem unfazed and don't take much interest in me, because they can have another 50 other losers be their emotional tampon. However I have had limited success with the upper class women (3 girls, one senior two juniors) , more so than the freshmen girls (one girl last year). All those relationships/dating situations were short lived, less than 1 month.
I am wondering what is your guy's analysis of this situation? Are the upper class girls more mature and therefore wanting a real man, such as the man I am working to become. Or is it possible I am just overthinking the situation? I just get the feeling that the girls who are not as pretty (the 6s and 7s) in the real world, are taking too much advantage of the low supply of hotties at my school. This situation sucks bad, because I would eventually like to have a decent looking LTGF here, but I diffenitly am not trying to date a woman that I have to bend over backwards for, expecially since I want to spend a good chunk of my time on football and academics.
If you need any information, I'd be happy to provide what I can. thanks alot DJ-s
Anyways, I go to a small liberal arts college in a small town and needless to say, there are not too many women here above a 4 quality. However there are a handful of girls that are 6-7 and a few that are 8-9. These girls upon arriving on campus are overwhelmed by the amount of guys pursuing them and immediately assume the role of a *****y girl who wants guys to do every thing for them and want all the attention all the time. Blah, blah, blah.... you have probably heard about this a million times.
So as I forementioned, I have been using the techniques in the dj bible as best I can by going out and meeting new girls (all the way from 1's to the 9s), improving my appearance, and solidifing my personality and manhood. So the girls should be flocking to me, Right? Not use a cliche, but wrong. The women just seem unfazed and don't take much interest in me, because they can have another 50 other losers be their emotional tampon. However I have had limited success with the upper class women (3 girls, one senior two juniors) , more so than the freshmen girls (one girl last year). All those relationships/dating situations were short lived, less than 1 month.
I am wondering what is your guy's analysis of this situation? Are the upper class girls more mature and therefore wanting a real man, such as the man I am working to become. Or is it possible I am just overthinking the situation? I just get the feeling that the girls who are not as pretty (the 6s and 7s) in the real world, are taking too much advantage of the low supply of hotties at my school. This situation sucks bad, because I would eventually like to have a decent looking LTGF here, but I diffenitly am not trying to date a woman that I have to bend over backwards for, expecially since I want to spend a good chunk of my time on football and academics.
If you need any information, I'd be happy to provide what I can. thanks alot DJ-s