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small bumps... rash or something more... HELP

Drifter

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Ok guys this has really freaked me out.
I had just finished my usual wacking yesterday and i happened to notice something on my c0ck.

They weren't that noticable, I probably wouldn't have seen them if I wasn't in bright light.

Right under the head of my penis, not on the head but the skin right below it, I noticed several small tiny red dots on each side.

I freaked out.
First off If it was herpes or something wouldnt it be on the head of my penis and not on the skin right below it?

Second of all these bumps aren't that large or painful, theyre small and red, only noticlble if i look closely...

THe only thing I can think of besides the worst, is that I'm an uncut guy and maybe I've developed a rash or something... I cant say this has ever happened before though...

should I really be freaking out and running to a doctor guys?
please help.......
 

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Ricky

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You can have all sorts of rashes and bumps on your penis. Most of them aren't anything related to an STD.

I would say lay off the masturbation (see the masturbation thread and enter the bet for who can go longest without spanking it).

If they go away without blistering or any pain, you can be pretty sure they aren't anything.

But you can go to a doctor as well.

I can relate I have had this happen to me as well. Scares the hell out of you.
 

Hot Ice

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Remember what happened to Larry in Larry 1&2 when you went to **** that ***** uptairs in the hotel without a condom...
Not good!

Okay, If there would happen something to MY c0ck, I would go to see a doctor as soon as I could, really!
 

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I think that I have the exact same thing you describe. A bunch of very small bumps in one area on the shaft. I cant even see them unless I'm erect. I freaked out too when I saw them, thought it was herpes or something like that as well. Thing was, when they first appeared, I wasn't sexually active (besides for masterbating). They don't hurt at all, or feel diferently in any way.

Anyway, I got them checked out by a doctor just to ease my concern, and the doc said that they were absolutely benign, nothing to worry about. He said that small bumps like this can occur in places like the groin and the armpits with exess sweating and heat. This explanation made perfect sense to me since I spend up to twenty hours a week riding a bike (and sweating like hell) in cycling shorts. The doc went on to say that they might be semi-permanent (meaning they might go away in 6 months, 2 years, or whenever) and that I shouldn't worry about them at all. Completely normal he said.

Like the other guys say, you should see a doctor for professional opinion. Don't worry too much though between now and your visit, because there are dozens of completely harmless explanations for the situation other than STD's.

- Maurizio
 
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