"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Small boobs insult

Pakwah

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I love this one, i use it whenever i can, i would to, since i made it up. I love it cuz it always leaves them hanging, and enough time for me to walk out with my head high and a smirk on my face

Girl with small boobs pissing me off i say...

Hey - you know what the diffence is between your tits and M&M's?

I can enjoy a handful of M&M's

I love it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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rrrrr

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I don't understand what the point of this is.
 

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How would you like it if she made fun of the size of ur cawk? If your trying to use C+f, your kinda failing man.
 

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If this is a reflection of the next generation of failures, i'm going to quit helping people now.

Re-think your strategies buddy. Or at the very least, read the bible and get some real tools under your belt.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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comic_relief

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Are you fvcking kidding me?

DJ-ism is not about insulting people or putting them down. It is about living life to its fullest and being where you want to be.

DJ's are all about being indifferent and winning people of different groups even the haters over to their side. They try to be the best so therefore how can a person hate them?

Please for the love of God, sosuave, DJ's, and yourself read the fvcken DJ bible. I don't want to eventually come back and find out how big of a failure you are. Even worse than skip2mylou.

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EDIT: I did not realize your from July 2003. Go read the DJ Bible. NOW!!! You have a lot to learn.
 

white sox bill

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Back in the 80's, I had a FB who had A cup--I would rag her about her being President of the Itty Bitty Titty Committee. She would comment that a fly was hung more than me. We knew we were both kidding, she came back many times to fvck! But to have this type of banter, you have to have a certain rapport with her.

Until thats established, leave the comments to yourself. I would imagine her crotch will make up for lack of cleavage. Good luck,
Bill
 

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comic_relief said:
Are you fvcking kidding me?

DJ-ism is not about insulting people or putting them down. It is about living life to its fullest and being where you want to be.

DJ's are all about being indifferent and winning people of different groups even the haters over to their side. They try to be the best so therefore how can a person hate them?

Please for the love of God, sosuave, DJ's, and yourself read the fvcken DJ bible. I don't want to eventually come back and find out how big of a failure you are. Even worse than skip2mylou.

comic_relief

EDIT: I did not realize your from July 2003. Go read the DJ Bible. NOW!!! You have a lot to learn.

Yep. It's about making the people around you feel good, to enjoy interacting with you.

Those stupid "neg hits" don't do anyone any good.

And, by negging to lower her value, you are only attempting to bring her to or below your level, and most women can see right thru it.

Instant blow out.

Those with true self-confidence and game don't need stupid gimmicks like "negs"
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Skilla_Staz

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I'm going to gripe about something else.

"I enjoy a handful of M&M's" says nothing about her tit size. It just says you don't enjoy a handful of her boobs. It means you don't want her boobs. It means you're possibly gay?

Thats what I think of your lame little "diss"
 

Cod3r

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If this is a reflection of the next generation of failures, i'm going to quit helping people now.
I feel this way everytime I log into this site... it would depress me if I wasn't such a stud :up: LoL but really, grow up kid


-Cod3r
 

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Those with true self-confidence and game don't need stupid gimmicks like "negs"[/QUOTE]

True, but I wouldn't go so far as to say they are stupid gimmicks. I've had a lot of success with them. If you are just starting out they can kickstart the development of your inner game.
 

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Derek Flint said:
Yep. It's about making the people around you feel good, to enjoy interacting with you.

Those stupid "neg hits" don't do anyone any good.

And, by negging to lower her value, you are only attempting to bring her to or below your level, and most women can see right thru it.

Instant blow out.

Those with true self-confidence and game don't need stupid gimmicks like "negs"
I've done no negs in all of my years at sosuave that were posted on the website. They usually came out off the cuff and guess what, they worked to make the girl laugh. I have made them into insults and am usually sad. I don't like people to be upset with me (stupid fault, I know).

I would not even call my neg's negs. They are more of off-the-cuff remarks that are funny. they subtley make fun of her but come in as not being mean to her. It is not hard.

Negs, C/F, and all that bullsh!t should come naturally. They should not be rehearsed or anything. They should come naturally, otherwise they feel fake and girls smell it out a mile away.

comic_relief
 

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Pakwah said:
I love this one, i use it whenever i can, i would to, since i made it up. I love it cuz it always leaves them hanging, and enough time for me to walk out with my head high and a smirk on my face
Girl with small boobs pissing me off i say...
Hey - you know what the diffence is between your tits and M&M's?
I can enjoy a handful of M&M's
I love it.

Lol, I love this one I just made up for this situation. I can walk away from this post with my head high and a smirk on my face knowing I just owned this guy.

Guy with stupid post who thinks he's suave
"Hey - you know what the difference is between your idea and you?
Nothing, they both suck ass."
I love it!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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