Smack Me

[TopDeadCenter]

I was seeing someone for a while, but it wasn't a great relationship. During that time I met a really great girl, and I got the idea she and I could have some potential.

She worked in another part of the building, and one day she disappeared. Someone told me she got another job, and they told me where.

After that my relationship ended.

It has been a few weeks now, and this girl has been on my mind. The only way I can reach her is to call her where she works, remind her who I am, and see if she is interested. I just feel like a bit of a freak doing it.

I would have asked her out in a snap if she was still there where I could see her in the office. Now I have to jump through this extra hoop, and I'm not sure I have the nerve to do it.

 

[DoctorLW]

Just do it. No harm in trying. Even if it is weird, what's the worst that can happen? Nothing serious I can think of. It's just your basic fear of rejection.

Just go for it man.

 

[L B]

Go for it!

 

[TopDeadCenter]

It's kind of weird how my state of mind shifts. Sometimes I'll hunt a girl down using the least little clue as to who or where she is, not caring what anyone including her thinks about it. And I'll get a date out of it. Then there are other times when I'm as timid as a little mouse, and wouldn't ask a girl out if she had my name printed on her shirt with hearts.

I'm always waiting for those times when I'm unstoppable, but they don't come when I need them.